@kaicfox: if you are actually engaging in your community and this conversation you will watch the whole video before you comment :) #queer #lgbtq #gay #bisexual #transgender
So... lesbian here, why wouldnt i date bi people? a hottie is a hottie
2026-08-07 20:24:26
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missmisarants :
“I’d never date a bisexual woman” “Why do bisexual women always end up with men?” 🙃 As a bi woman, this conversation is just so tiring
2026-08-08 07:05:38
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el ❤️🔥 :
As a lesbian, lesbians who won’t date bi people are also biphobic but they won’t accept that either
2026-08-08 08:03:08
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Soso 💙🤍💜 :
There are so many lesbians on my feed spreading the same rhetoric as the straight women, thinking they can't possibly be bigoted because they are also in the community. It's so disheartening. And I'm very glad the bi men are getting defended, but I wish people would show bi women the same support.
2026-08-07 16:01:24
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Bubs :
I recently saw a lesbian say that bi people are too focused on dating other sexualities and how she’s never sees Bi4Bi couples ever. I was sitting there, like, do you actually never see it or do you immediately assume every couple you see is a straight, lesbian, or gay couple. I’ve had people of every single sexuality assume me and my boyfriend are lesbians, when we are a T4T Bi4Bi couple. We exist, everyone just jumps to conclusions.
2026-08-07 20:22:02
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brandonroman191 :
I’m a straight man married to a bi woman. Couldn’t tell the difference between dating a bi woman or a straight woman. It’s so stupid to judge based on who a person is attracted to. If we are exclusive it doesn’t make a difference.
2026-08-07 17:13:23
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chelsea :
You touched on something that often happens to me as a bisexual woman when I try to date other women - I will be trying to get to know them, and they will tell me I'm male centered as soon as it comes up that I'm bisexual. I'm trying to get to know you, and you're talking to me about men - which one of us is being male centered with our behavior here????
2026-08-07 18:46:46
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Lavender :
I had a lesbian who I dated, who told me that I was untrustworthy because I’m bisexual. turns out the whole time she was cheating on me with a man.
2026-08-07 20:10:31
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Her :
Can I ask was you upset of the label that they called you lesbian phobic
2026-08-10 01:52:21
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✦. ── 𝒥𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓁𝑒𝓈 ── .✦ :
It’s so CRAZY that I’m seeing “well they’re dirty and ran through by a man” LIKE?????
2026-08-07 18:20:32
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Gackled :
I also keep seeing them say “its my preference.” No its not a preference, its a requirement which is completely different
2026-08-07 19:44:41
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Porcelainpines ✧ :
You hit the nail on the head with this and another thing ive noticed is so many of these arguments i see are so genital-focused they could use the same argument against lesbians who date trans women. Theyre literally just conservatives lol😭
2026-08-07 18:22:47
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☀️ :
“lesbians are the only people not attracted to cis men” pisses me off so bad some people looovvee erasing/co opting ace/aro experiences only for themselves too. like half of the points in the lesbian master doc were not lesbian exclusive
2026-08-07 17:59:10
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THEBRONZEDBADDIE🤎 :
It’s not bigotry
2026-08-08 10:33:19
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Nyx (Kate bishops gf frfr) :
i feel like what it is for me is like being bi doesn't change that person fundamentally yk? it's just so weird to me that you could choose not to date someone bc of an arbitrary label yk bc realistically what they're attracted to doesn't actually fundamentally change that persons personality, body etc there's not like some bisexual hormone that makes ppl cheat you feel me lol
2026-08-10 00:03:36
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Sarah Deering🥳 :
random but you would slay a dangle earring
2026-08-10 01:21:15
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Mama Aimee🏳️🌈🇺🇲🆘️❌️ :
I'm a lifetime lesbian married for 20 years to a bi woman. Bi bigotry is real. she doesn't tell people she's bi because of that.
2026-08-10 01:55:47
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Alex Hernandez :
WELL SAID
2026-08-09 08:42:18
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Dubs ✨ 🐈⬛ :
As a gay, I just don’t understand limiting your dating pool so severely. 😅 It’s already hard finding wlw, why make it harder? 🤣
2026-08-07 20:29:11
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RosieRaee :
If your dating deal breaker is something a person cannot change (IE Race, sexuality, disabilities, etc) it comes from a place of bigotry.
2026-08-08 13:22:28
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mark_confidant :
There’s so many people in any group that gets discriminated against who say to themselves “man, why can’t I be the one doing the discriminating?” and then they act on that desire the second they can. It makes me really sad.
2026-08-07 15:47:23
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ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ :
we’re too straight for gay people and too gay for straight people. it’s an experience non bisexuals wont understand and don’t want to understand
2026-08-07 20:06:12
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✨ Cosmic Swamp Witch ✨ :
I’m so exhausted by the constant rotation of bi/transphobia online.
2026-08-07 16:56:23
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the_darkest_urge :
it's all so cyclical. it's giving the same energy as the "good monogamous monosexual gays" vs the "weird deviant gender transgressive queers" that was so very prevalent during the arguments for marriage equality. Yes, I'm all for marriage equality, glad we made big strides there, but it very often came wrapped in the language of proximity to straightness and actively putting down those who did not want to or could not fit that mold.
2026-08-07 18:41:35
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