@mightyyyymouse: Trust issues after narcissistic abuse are not insecurity. They are memory. My trust issues didn’t come from being insecure. They came from watching someone swear on everything while looking me dead in the eyes and lying without flinching. Nobody warns you what that does to a person. You stop believing what you hear. You start scanning faces. You replay conversations at 1am looking for the crack you missed. People call it being paranoid. It’s not paranoia. It’s pattern recognition. Your brain built a security system out of everything they put you through, and now it never fully turns off. That’s what gaslighting leaves behind. That’s what betrayal does to a nervous system. So no, you’re not broken and you’re not too damaged to love again. You got trained. And anything trained can be untrained. Message me FREEDOM and I’ll show you how to trust yourself again. #narcissist #traumabond #Love #trending #viral