@cypher.j: (if you're lagging you're early!!) there was a lot to discuss here so I just went all the way #mother #parents #wisdom #adulthood #motherwound
“Whose nervous system taught you what wrong feels like?”
2026-08-07 23:18:56
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Cesar :
You grow up performing for a parent & when you’re an adult you still fear to be yourself. But when you meet someone you don’t have to perform for, then the real fear comes in. Who am I without performing?
2026-08-08 02:22:49
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notmona🍒✨ :
But a mother’s sacrifice cannot become a mortgage on a child’s selfhood🧎🏼♀️➡️
2026-08-08 04:59:34
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IAMABIGAILBARS :
The guilt of freedom 😮💨🔥
2026-08-07 22:53:59
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Devenknow :
Rebelling early is the best way to get outta this
2026-08-08 04:27:45
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slumboyxxxxx :
her caution became your prediction your prediction become your expectation
2026-08-07 21:11:36
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cantfindmyself :
I have the other one type of mother wound
2026-08-08 08:53:17
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lowtox.girlie :
How about a hello first
2026-08-08 08:34:19
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Joell Bates :
I told my therapist my “inner council” is like a senate chamber of different versions/aspects of me and my mom is like a random person screaming from the wings. She countered that by saying it sounds like my mom is the speaker of the house and that my identity is fused to her. I almost lost it
2026-08-07 21:13:08
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Marjani32 :
crying dumb hard because I love my mother but goddamn, it's hard to love someone when they don't even see you like you're an actual person
2026-08-08 04:45:28
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Tarin | Travel & Hobbies :
"you want to stop disappearing when she enters the room"
bouuu you betta preach !!
2026-08-07 21:41:59
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guraman-_- :
holy scroll
2026-08-08 08:36:57
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cherchezlaghost :
A brilliant mind, I tell ya.
2026-08-07 20:26:28
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kennedy <3 :
ugh. i subconsciously hear her voice all the time. she only wants the best for me but her fears have definitely bled into mine…
2026-08-08 08:08:31
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Gab🍄 :
yep I notice everything
2026-08-08 08:20:27
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purple🐰💜 :
“There was a child who didn’t know that she had to grade the attempts”😩😩 always remember this
2026-08-08 06:56:47
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MrD'Agostino :
Cycle ends with me. Not becoming her, not having children. I'm very proud of myself, especially since she was never proud of me.
2026-08-08 02:22:54
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FRESH :
I know this is for any race but some of those points were uniquely black experiences
2026-08-07 22:20:31
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Chelsea ✨🎗️ :
Therapy has done wonders to get out of that mindset