You were managing all of this with a one year old, I’m sooo very sorry.
2026-09-10 15:45:46
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kellioxendine :
Take them to Dollywood. It’s so pretty at Christmas. Rent a cabin with a tree already set up. Let the trip be the present so you don’t have to shop. Give them money and let them shop while your their at the outlets. Get a couple sweet wrapped gifts you can pack and call it done.
2026-08-17 22:59:09
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Nikki Jaso :
My husband died January 30th of this year, so far I’ve had Valentine’s Day, Easter, Fathers Day, his birthday, and 4th of July alone. I’m already getting anxiety more than I already have about thanksgiving and Christmas. 😔💔
2026-08-07 21:40:45
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piscesdreams🖤 :
My mom unexpectedly died 7 years ago when i was only 25, with time the pain becomes bearabe but man i wish things were different for all of us <3 im so sorry for your loss.
2026-09-10 05:33:21
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user8311929543366 :
Christmas was a tough one, but I know it was so much harder for you being so soon after.
2026-08-08 16:23:55
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mama3boys84 :
😢😢😢😢😢😢 the holidays last yr sucked. I cry thinking of trying to stay strong thru another holiday😢😢 ours was Halloween. we got married on Halloween 😢😢😢
2026-08-08 00:53:13
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rk :
My mom passed nov 21st & we had thanksgiving imminently after
2026-08-08 16:11:27
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Sarah :
My dad died December 4th 2008 and i remember Christmas morning we had heaps of presents from the community and we didn’t even open all of them because we were so sad. Christmas became a happy holiday again, but that grief was always there. My momma used to say that just meant we had a lot of Love for daddy and no where for it to go. I hope that you and your babies can find a way through this terrible thing!
2026-08-08 14:23:30
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marshalovelee :
My hubby died last September. Forgot to buy a turkey for thanksgiving so made wings in the oven. On Christmas we went to the Olive Garden my kids are older. I don’t know how I made it this far
2026-08-08 03:33:13
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Revenant :
Year 5 now it’s like it was yesterday 🥺
2026-08-08 09:27:12
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Nanny :
I'm sorry for your loss you are such a strong woman beautiful lady prayers for you and your family
2026-08-08 00:44:28
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Stephanie Detitta :
My husband died in January and I booked a cruise for Christmas…I couldn’t imagine being home and having Christmas without him
2026-08-08 02:14:52
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Bri Reiter :
Im sooo beyond sorry for your loss.🥺 Please please don't make this the normal 😫 my dad passed away December 14th when I was 2 in 1995(Christmas was his fav holiday) and my mom was never the same another Christmas. I understand it, but also it made me hate and despise Christmas and its so difficult to fake it for my own kids now.
2026-08-23 21:56:55
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Forever Mrs. D+S VanSkiver🤍 :
Mine passed the 17th of December and I could not agree more.. it was all a blur. I don’t even remember it really 💔💔
2026-08-08 08:17:17
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its.stormy.lynn :
this will be my first Christmas without my husband and I am already dreading it. I have thought about planning a trip and me and my kids running away. could be a new tradition.
2026-08-25 04:06:21
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Monique Enough Said :
My first major loss was my mom. She was killed in a car accident right before her birthday. Christmas was her favorite, her feeling like a "Christmas baby" even though her birthday was on the 11th😂. Not the same kind of loss but Christmas is rough for me even after all this time. Not the same, but I just hope that you and your babies can remember all the beauty (some of which you've shared here) that he represented to your family. Hugs and love always mama❤️
2026-08-08 00:59:05
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Gail Purkey :
My husband died on December 16th. Terrible Christmas and his family didn't include me or my kids . I prayour husband's family treated you better.
2026-08-07 23:28:04
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Kristy Saucier :
Hear me out….. skip it with the Santa stuff and decorate for the 4th of July if that makes your heart happy! Girl, do anything you need to do to smile. Wrap them gift in patriotic wrapping and USA flags? He loved the 4th! You’ll celebrate Christmas and his favorite holiday!
2026-08-08 02:15:34
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Jess🌻 :
I have so much anxiety about the holidays coming up. We would do the matching family pajamas, and host Christmas breakfast at our house. I just don’t know if I could do it this year.
2026-08-07 22:23:01
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Tamara :
my mama died December 10th 2025 so I understand in a way!! 😢💔🙏🏼
2026-08-12 00:31:34
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Kristina 🤷🏻♀️ :
Sweet girl, I'm a therapist. I lost my mom at 7.5 months pregnant with my only child. If you EVER want to talk. I'd seriously LOVE TO. I spent my last Christmas with her in the hospital as I was pregnant. It was terrible. she raised me by herself. I’m her only child.
2026-08-08 00:06:22
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Ms Blessed :
I’m so sorry mama! I lost my dad to “s—cide” and the first year was horrible. I hope you and your family receive some strength to get through this
2026-09-10 20:34:03
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sarah Elizabeth :
sorry.
2026-08-13 02:56:36
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ShannonTheGreat :
It’s especially rough when they pass on a holiday. For example mine passed to suicide on my birthday of all days. It’s just horrible that he chose that day. Was it to hurt me one final time? Or continuously hurt me? Or was he doing it that day to honor me in some twisted way? I’ll never know. I do know that it doesn’t bother me that much that day. My brothers bday is the day after so he asked me if I wanted to trade 🤣 our parents don’t know the difference anyways 😂
2026-09-09 13:16:36
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