i have lost myself when i loved him more than me and i had to come to a point where i had to apologize to my 10year old self for abandoning her..for allowing others to hurt us and made us doubt ourselves..Im starting to learn how to choose her this time without fear..The road to recovery is still long and hard but im learning 💔
2026-08-08 15:14:49
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Jay.B! :
And somehow love can be classified as sacrifice .So somewhere in love I also mistaken sacrifice with self abandonment .😔hoping that giving pieces of me will make them learn how to hold me gently.Maybe I gave too much till they couldn’t take it no more and leave ,maybe I became too heavy to hold I didn’t know 😭I didn’t know that I didn’t have to die just to keep someone .Just to keep love .😔💔so I learned that what’s not for me will keep demanding me to prove something only love has proven ,to compete with the past and untamed desires 😭So no…It took loosing myself before I learned to love myself . It’s strange honestly…how I remembered to love someone else while forgetting that I deserved to be loved by me too.🥺hope memorized me so much till we both became identical twins.The difference is that I was more hallow and it was more vividly.😔
2026-08-10 17:53:29
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Ncube :
tjoe where have you been? i feel like I needed hear this long time ago 💔
2026-08-16 18:35:42
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Emmahkulture :
I wonder how you read ma mind 😭
2026-08-08 20:11:32
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Live mbakampela :
❤️❤️😩
2026-08-08 21:28:22
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Peekaboo 😌 :
your on my fyp so much I might as well drop a follow
2026-08-10 07:58:43
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