domimojo :
Ok. As a dude, how I would handle that situation depends on a great many variables and is a bit complicated to try to explain over a message such as this. I think it comes down to, you don’t know why the person was mean. Did it have to do with me approaching specifically, or was it due to other factors and the person reacted the way they did because of those other factors? Should I just assume the first, or should I possibly ask a couple follow up questions because it might be the second situation. Like I said, complicated. Btw, the dude in your story sounded like he was being aggressively persistent, but there are ways to be a little bit persistent, while being respectful at the same time. Lastly, you are assertive, bold, and very blunt, but you don’t seem to be actually mean, as in being malicious. In the end, for men, that are actually trying to meet you or any woman in public, and trying to be respectful, this is a complicated subject and not one suited for this communication format lol.
2026-08-08 01:55:13