@caffinatedkitti: @Kitti #beansouptheory yall. Try to have a think before you ask. It’s good for my engagement but not for my patience. I have loads of experience with men (derogatory) approaching me to ask me out- they have many obvious body language and facial cues. It’s not subtle at all. AND THATS NOT EVEN THE TOPIC… the video was about yall ignoring even mean no’s and how that is a red flag for a coercive abuseeeeeeeeer #traumatizethemen #beavillain #caffinatedkitti #women

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flitlady
Flitlady🇨🇦 :
Perk of being my age, I'm not the target audience anymore 🤣🤣🤣💜💜💜
2026-08-07 23:32:28
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amandazander89
Amanda :
“But ‘what if you actually thought critically for 2 seconds?’- Since we’re hypothesizing things that obviously didn’t happen”… But with kids things like colorful hair, tattoos, alt clothing and big sparkly witchy jewelry/accessories draws them in like crows with something sparkly and the RBF and carefully cultivated “fuck off” energy goes right over their innocent little heads…
2026-08-08 00:07:18
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thaliaemerysnightshade
Thalia :
You're amazing Miss Kitti! I love ur videos! Thanks to you, I am going through a Villian era and u have been very helpful.
2026-08-07 23:26:13
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rachelfrancis1990
Rachel Francis :
I think you have a stellar and impressive personality
2026-08-08 01:48:34
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zurguret
zurguret :
🫘🥫 for the soul~✨
2026-08-08 02:01:45
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mrfuzzybagels
mrfuzzybagels :
You have my favorite personality lol. I dream of a world where “fuck off” is an acceptable response to strangers 🙂‍↕️
2026-08-08 00:22:23
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lieutenant_f0x
卂₦Ð₹!Ʉ₴ :
Like OBVIOUSLY you’re not talking about people in situations with exceptions… 🥀
2026-08-07 23:28:31
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orangegamerpup
Pup Orion :
anyone ever told you that you make them think of a human cait sidhe?
2026-08-08 01:00:21
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thenamesspitfire
thenamesspitfire :
but what about my bean soup?
2026-08-07 23:31:10
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mehwhatever22
Casey 🇦🇺 :
But what if? It’s a totally different scenario? Then umm we might handle it in a different way because derrr?
2026-08-07 23:37:59
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hob_the_gob
Hob :
the jukebox analogy reminded me of Bianca del Rio's analogy of her "rolladex of hate" 😂
2026-08-08 04:43:01
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king.of.aces4
Ace :
do people actually say you are ugly? are they blind or stupid?
2026-08-08 01:10:58
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rider4z
Rider4Z✝️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️😤 :
don't mind me, just happy to be here.
2026-08-07 23:30:56
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domimojo
domimojo :
Ok. As a dude, how I would handle that situation depends on a great many variables and is a bit complicated to try to explain over a message such as this. I think it comes down to, you don’t know why the person was mean. Did it have to do with me approaching specifically, or was it due to other factors and the person reacted the way they did because of those other factors? Should I just assume the first, or should I possibly ask a couple follow up questions because it might be the second situation. Like I said, complicated. Btw, the dude in your story sounded like he was being aggressively persistent, but there are ways to be a little bit persistent, while being respectful at the same time. Lastly, you are assertive, bold, and very blunt, but you don’t seem to be actually mean, as in being malicious. In the end, for men, that are actually trying to meet you or any woman in public, and trying to be respectful, this is a complicated subject and not one suited for this communication format lol.
2026-08-08 01:55:13
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inannamute
Inannamute :
I'm a straight woman but I think you're pretty and awesome and your styling is beautiful.
2026-08-08 04:10:19
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michael_t7148
Michael ིᖭ༏ᖫྀ :
✨bean soup ✨
2026-08-08 01:37:31
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_.o0lily0o._
Lily :
I'm autistic and not the best at reading people's body language or subtext. And even I know when guys are hitting on me because y'all are so damn obvious! Ladies tho, they are a lot better at it, and actually welcome to try 😍
2026-08-08 00:10:08
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celestialbatboy
𓆩Batboy𓆪 :
they genuinely get on my nerves because it's always just "W-Well what if he was nice and respectful too you! What then huh!?" and like ??? I would be respectful back???😭
2026-08-08 02:28:15
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bobtheduck99
bobtheduck99 :
I love everything you throw out here! I promise I'm not trying to simp or white knight, but not only do i have anxiety, but I'm obviously an AMAB, and want to make sure I'm a good ally. Friends/partners with your wit and barbs are the best. They're also all intimidating as fuck. Whats the proper way to say "hi, i can take no for an answer, but i want to introduce myself because you're cool as hell and I dont wanna be creepy, but maybe friends or more"? I'm assuming the answer is something along the lines of "have a think." 😂 If thats the case, that tells me everything i need to know about me and that im still making it worse out there.
2026-08-08 00:40:05
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rleem7b5
Robin :
It's so unfortunate especially because I love bean soup
2026-08-08 03:58:32
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kittykatpsycho
Kittykatpsycho🇦🇺 :
You are truely an inspiration 🫡 thanks Queen
2026-08-07 23:36:45
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laurenthewunderllama
Lorraine Walnut :
It’s crazy that you are clocking the “imma hit on your body language” but they can’t read the “stay the fuck away from me” body language I would assume you’re giving off.
2026-08-08 01:16:40
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akumalamprey
Bree, of the House of Herne :
The "Whataboutism" is gonna fry my last braincell faster than anything else atp.
2026-08-07 23:49:34
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princess_eldritch
EldritchGoddess :
as tall as I am, I'm gigantic, I just stare at people, they back down
2026-08-07 23:58:31
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tomzo_711
Tomzo's Corner :
It's like, even though you're spelling it out for them they're just not getting the context. 🤦
2026-08-07 23:48:39
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