@sha.wear_do: VENT POST!! //Comparing your child to others may seem like a simple way of motivating them, but sometimes, it can hurt more than we realize. When a child constantly hears, “Why can’t you be like them?” they may slowly start to believe that they are not good enough. They may feel that no matter how hard they try, someone will always be better than them. Instead of feeling proud of their own progress, they may become afraid of disappointing their parents. Every child has their own strengths, weaknesses, and pace of learning. What they need most is not comparison, but understanding, encouragement, and someone who will remind them that they are already worthy even while they are still learning and growing.// #fyp #vent #ventart #animation #relatable
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Saturday 08 August 2026 03:29:43 GMT
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⦻ ST★RR-DO3 ᛑᛗᛛ :
I'm 17 and I can't fucking cook.
2026-08-08 13:08:55
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𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒂' :
"why is my child hate me?"
2026-08-08 06:16:20
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manoMango :
being called an accident and hearing people laugh changed something in me
2026-08-08 08:25:52
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maseliczka :
she always tells me to be smart like my friends -_-
2026-08-13 20:59:36
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𝖝𝖔𝖝𝖔𝖔 :
they expect us to do everything perfect since birth 😭
2026-08-13 10:15:45
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Velannie :
Let me add this... most parents don't get that their childrens' intelligence was inherited from THEM and depends on how they teach them. Usually, the parents would just put on expectations instead of actually coaching and teaching their sons and daughters to become what they could be with their specialties and abilities. I said what I said, because most parents are ignorant of this or just wanna get to the easy way through their kids.
2026-08-13 05:29:48
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sunnytree :
Shiiii same
2026-08-13 01:46:18
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🎸𝖎𝖗𝖎𝖘★ :
I feel bad for the kids compared to me by my mom's co workers, My mom had enough of them comparing me and told them that they're unfair because why should they expect them to be like me and my sisters when they didn't raise us the way she did, She stopped talking to them ever since
2026-08-08 08:59:56
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Yah🚦🏜️🐪🦜 :
lmao i bring good grades and can do work but she still finds reasons to compare me to my cousin
2026-08-09 21:43:58
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ChocolateCake!_yummy😋 :
when I don't do my chores they say "other kids already know how to make rice" so I just do my chores just wishing I'm like those kids
2026-08-08 09:00:35
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JainonZ :
I was lucky to be smart and hardworking... Narcissistic parents should be arrested
2026-08-08 06:12:43
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Cleménte Dearworth 🐐🌾 :
"why does my kid never ask me to buy stuff for her?".... because when I actually ask you to,you never reply.
2026-08-13 22:35:51
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TCG :
honestly though what gets inside the minds of our parents to think it's okay to publicly degrade us when people are over and compare us to them like thanks for giving me more things to be insecure about 😂
2026-08-08 03:56:58
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lexah. :
instead keeping that as a motivation, it went to "I'm not good enough" :/
2026-08-08 03:38:34
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Emm_PlayZ :
being compared to someone is something I absolutely hate, you made me like this why complain of your result?;[
2026-08-09 01:53:30
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Sanny•Hz :
"You want a good child, but you're still not good enough." That's what my mother told my grandmother, my mother was influenced by the worldviews of the older generation, but she tried her best to fulfill her responsibilities as a mother. I'm not happy with my mother, but I'm proud that she tried to understand kids like me.
2026-08-08 10:34:42
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c7cuco6 :
you are enough
2026-08-08 03:35:28
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⌗ᆞ› ᴛᴏᴏɴ | ᴘɪᴍ's ʜᴜᴢᴢ ꒰ 🍎 ꒱ :
Specifically MOTHERS have such a disgusting obsession with comparing their own kids to others. My own has compared me to my friend, my cousin, my brother. She's begging to lose connection with me saying shit like that.
2026-08-09 10:54:34
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Rui :
My own mother only care about my hygiene, appearance and clothing style. NEVER my achievements from my high school. One time, she sent my brother to charge at me and beat me at 11 PM and I stayed up 3 AM to clean myself and seeing my face injuries and I have a possible concussion. I missed on my Keystones exam retakes and field trip on that day
2026-08-08 21:00:42
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Josh :
as soon as im 18 im leaving her house
2026-08-10 07:19:38
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