@lily.girltea: Followspy reminds me that love equals consistency #redflags #dating #toxic

MCross :

as a man who tried to change from fear because I honestly didnt know what I was doing wrong, despite being told, we aren't the brightest creatures. it took God opening my eyes to change out of love and a wife that trusted in God and fought and cried and prayed until that real change came. it can happen, it does happen, but it takes real patience and real love to let it happen.

Kate's Life Diaries :

He tried this on me. Cried loudly at night, *prayed* - while all the doors to the bedrooms were open. He wanted us to hear him. Nobody got up to comfort him. I knew by then it was no longer my place to rescue him from his own consequences.

Madison :

He doesn’t care though

erin 💐 :

I need help, what if he does change? I basically said he has to change or we break up, and we are taking a break and now he’s changing, it’s only been a week into our break, I’m just so confused

madohera :

we’ve been through this so many times now i dont feel anything for him at all

shaboobie :

Stop trying to change the person and find the right one first.

Mira💞💞 :

Not even then does he listen

𝓷𝓲𝓾𝓼𝓲𝓪 :

Kay :

They always do

guadalupecustomz :

he never even changed after I tried leaving he’s never even fought he opened the door

kirstenn <3 :

fear dont een mean shit nomo

𑣲𝑺 :

I’m done with arguing bru

Jennie.FeelGood :

You deserve it girl

Lib🧚🏼 :

random but this morning i finally expressed how it makes me feel when he’s been up for hours on the game and then 10 minutes after i wake up he leaves the room for 30 to an hour and all he said was “i just went to eat” that’s not the point. you waited until i woke up to do so and don’t show me affection when i wake up. but he just always feels personally attacked and immediately defends himself. like idk but if the roles were reversed it wouldn’t be like that. i would be excited for him to wake up but yk

🦇AJ🦇 :

Yep.

_.eveel1na :

not even fear makes him wanna change anymore

del✞kha366 :

haha..

lu🃏 :

i love this girl so much, i may have lost her but i put in the work everyday to become a better person. not even just for her but for me too. i wish i could show her how serious i am about her and about us.

Tair 🍋 :

only when im crying

_jadyn.grace :

this

jocelyn :

sigh

Tanner Renae✨ :

He keeps calling and begging me to come back but the only time I get an i’m sorry is when I’m leaving. He can say his sorry to his mirror now.

Dana :

this.

Jjboy :

Goes both ways. Everyone be blessed 🙌