@redditjan1: Nobody from my family came to my husband's funeral, not even my parents nor my best friend — they all went to my sister's engagement party instead. But as we lowered the casket, my phone lit up with a message from my mom: We need to talk now, followed by 36 missed calls... An engagement is a once-in-a-lifetime event. Funerals, they can wait. My cousin sneered as she brushed past me the night before. Her words cut through me like glass. And the worst part, she wasn't the only one