@krtnyc: She didn’t change because she lost you. She changed because life finally taught her the lesson you were trying to teach while you were together. There’s a difference. And just because she finally gets it… Doesn’t mean she gets another chance. Growth doesn’t create debt. You don’t owe someone access because they finally realized your value after they lost it. The real question isn’t whether she’s changed. The real question is… Would she have respected this version of you if you never walked away? Think about that. FELLAS… if someone only values you after they lose you, are they valuing you or the consequences of losing you? 👇