@loudly.leo: I so badly wish someone would have told this to 16 year old me #dating #relationships #patriarchy #women #decentermen

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goldand.jules
julesgold :
I literally told my bf the other day that the longer im with him the more I realize that my ex didnt like me AT ALL. like if this is what it is to be loved how did I EVER think that what my ex designed to give me was anything CLOSE to love??
2026-08-24 16:12:27
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jmpellerin
🌛Jac🌜 :
The way some folks speak about their partner I always wonder if they even LIKE them
2026-08-08 12:26:23
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emilymarie882
Emily Marie :
My husband and I have been married for 18 years, I came home from work yesterday (he's retired) to him being all giggly about putting up some decorations in our room for me that I've been putting off doing. Still asks me out on dates, we watch shows together so we can discuss them. Yes we are also attracted to each other but if you aren't each others best friend I feel like a marriage would be miserable
2026-08-08 12:34:54
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davidvukmanic
David Vukmanic :
I agree with you should like them. But I don’t see that equating to being romantic. Romance is in the eye of the beholder and what one considers romantic the other may not. Romance to me is giving you my time which I don’t have much of. But to her my time may not be romantic, she may want champagne and dancing which I don’t see as at all romantic. So romance should not be a criteria of we choose as a partner. It’s should be are they there for me, do they treat me well, do they love me, do they desire me. But romance, no way.
2026-08-08 17:17:42
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inondik_inora
kea :
a saw a girl on here showing us a wine bottle with a plant on top that she got from this guy, it was a wine bottle from their second date, he saved it and washed it and put a plant in it to propagate. He ghosted her after the third date 😂 so yeah
2026-08-09 11:02:08
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low.vely
Low :
I’ve started reading the comments of your posts and my gaaaaawd. My dude, how are you handling reading so many of these stupid comments and maintaining your sanity? As always, appreciate your take and it is AS ALWAYS, exactly on point!
2026-08-08 21:51:51
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strawlinaze
Strawlina🍓 :
Thank YOUUUU! Some men see their relationship as some sort of burden. They just wanna tick the girlfriend case out of the checklist and have access to the intimacy
2026-08-09 12:16:27
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finnndachs111
CallMeWhenItRains :
Not only that, but it's okay to appreciate small things and gestures and all that, too. I hate this 'uh, that's literally bare minimum'-movement recently. A woman posts a video with the flowers her boyfriend got her? 'The bar is in hell, we're happy about the bare minimum'. Like what. Bro, it's just a nice fucking gesture and she's happy he thought of it, wdym bare minimum?
2026-08-09 11:05:40
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cocorose1996
cocorose1996 :
I met someone when I was 27 and I was giggling and was flustered around him and I was like “why wasn’t I like that around my ex’s?” And that’s when I realized I was never really attracted to my ex’s. They really liked me and I was like bet. But my parents hate my guts like actually hate me so when a guy liked me I was happy about it. I never stopped to think to think if I actually liked them until it was too late. I was so used to being mistreated that when they did things I didn’t like I just rolled my eyes. And looking back now, they probably felt like I didn’t like them bc I was always annoyed with them.
2026-08-08 12:34:52
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boujeebsties
Boujee Besties :
And the person who you are married to. I can never figure out why men marry women they hate.
2026-08-10 17:09:02
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allison_bloom
Allison Bloom :
How do I get the date in the first place? Fml
2026-08-10 02:03:03
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tabithahhh
Tab🌟 :
This!!
2026-08-09 10:02:06
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wonhoneybopp
Sof :
Yeah, in my last relationship I begged for flowers, letters, songs and never happened. That's not the way I want to be loved so I left (took me 3 years but finally did it)
2026-08-08 17:48:49
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a.james.h
AJH🏳️‍⚧️ :
You need to like yourself too
2026-08-08 15:40:58
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da_great_timmy
da_great_timmy :
did you give those things you were expecting? or is it just a one way thing?
2026-08-08 13:13:12
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alannahs_muse
Alannah :
the problem is dating men, especially if they're straight
2026-08-09 12:17:32
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lynniegenieee
Lynniegenie :
I see some of my friends’ husbands & how they treat my friends and it’s SO OBVIOUS they don’t even like them. Like, she’s just there to provide him with the family for his public image & all the labor to serve all his needs. Indentured servitude for a lifetime….and for what?!
2026-08-17 13:22:06
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