Just got married 8/8!!! wrote an itinerary with addresses, timelines etc. No one even looked at it. Kept texting me asking for all the info that I spent like 3 days carefully adding to a very type A chart. Damned if you do…
2026-08-10 12:59:32
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FurBabiesUnleashed :
Found you bc of the whole dress thing but stayed for your personality.
2026-08-09 00:49:26
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erynccc :
If it makes you feel any better, I was type A and these types of things still happened!! I really prioritized a chill morning where everyone was taken care of, and I ended up the only one who was completely stressed until the ceremony because it seemed like most of the group just simply couldn’t function (especially my mom!) 😅
2026-08-11 20:48:41
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Kelso :
@Haley Elizabeth needed your itinerary binder
2026-08-10 14:07:52
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Juliana :
I 1000% did not clock the lights!
2026-08-08 15:58:12
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MarToca Beach Garden :
Find a Venue that includes Planner and all vendors. And at very least have all vendors on speed dial
2026-08-11 00:11:41
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alexmey :
Where was your wedding?!
2026-08-08 22:19:49
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Felicia :
I did exactly that and no one followed it 🫠
2026-08-11 00:42:10
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olivia__rc :
I wrote out an itinerary for my family and wedding party, communicated beforehand, and still had to wrangle all of them on the day of 😂
2026-08-12 14:20:40
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Nathalie | NYC Wedding Photog :
This is a huge reason why planners and coordinators make such a difference on a wedding day! Even as a wedding photographer, I try to mitigate this by reminding my couples to let family members know ahead of time when and where they need to be for photos, and to designate one person who can help corral everyone when it’s time. It makes family photos go SO much smoother!
2026-08-11 20:58:02
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Marissa✨ :
Did you have a day of coordinator? I will say that helped a lot with logistics and coordination of the timeline!
2026-08-09 19:53:55
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