@forthefew_: You’re a grown man now. Maybe you have a wife or girlfriend who loves you. And you’re hiding what you watch, deleting history, making promises you keep breaking, or watching the person beside you slowly lose trust in you. At some point, “everybody does it” stops being a good enough reason to keep doing something. Adult content may be normalized. That doesn’t make it healthy for you, your sexuality, or your relationship. And accepting that doesn’t mean your life gets worse because you have to give something up. It is the opposite. No more hiding. No more objectifying. No more managing two versions of yourself. No more constantly chasing stimulation. More presence. More self control. More genuine intimacy. More freedom. And the opportunity to become someone your partner can actually feel safe with.