@karlaeliaa: If we have time to think about the argument we have time to get HOTTER & SMARTER. I’ve been too nice with my husband! This was a good warning sign - time to refine our romantic lifestyle #feminineenergy #advice #relationships #marriage

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amyybby777
amyybby777 :
I feel like the main topic was lost bc he was intentional with not wanting to take you on dates. How was the resolved ?
2026-08-08 18:19:41
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raw.on.air.talks
livelifelove77 :
Its so sad how you keep on blaming yourself 😭
2026-08-08 23:47:15
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jenn_e_gee
Jenny G. :
So how will you refine and stop being too nice?
2026-08-09 00:57:47
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sunnydreams007
SunnyDreams :
Baby i would have taken an uber and plan the day away 🥰
2026-08-08 20:35:36
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sana25110
Sana :
How can you not take it personally? That is so hard for me and what would you say to him for what he said
2026-08-08 17:43:02
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b.stendera
Bella Stendera :
Could you explain what you mean by taking accountability that you’ve been “too nice”? Like what does “too nice” mean? And what do you consider your next steps?
2026-08-08 21:33:23
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lifestylewithlexi529
Lifestyle with Lexi 🦋 :
Hmm you still took on all the emotional regulation and labor but if you feel good about it that's what matters most!
2026-08-09 13:50:51
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nailideas24087544
user24 :
So what would be the next step? can you tell us what "refined" means in this situation? such as steps you took?
2026-08-08 18:00:58
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user9963760524380
AMG :
how long have you been married
2026-08-09 07:32:33
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sprinkleofkaya
sprinkleofkaya :
Ladies, pay attention and what our takes to stay married then think about how long you want to live like this.
2026-08-09 22:28:42
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lindaapproves
Linda :
See this is why we never say “my man my man my man” on here. Cause they will always do something to ruin it.
2026-08-12 07:12:37
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dennisse.ag
Dennisse🫧 :
Thank you for being real and not trying to paint a picture perfect marriage
2026-08-09 15:27:37
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nipermisoniperdon
nipermisoniperdon :
why are you making so many excuses for him?
2026-08-14 07:35:29
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nancyfancybackup
nancyfancybackup :
So how are you going to stop being “too nice”? Could you please explain what the next steps are for you?
2026-08-09 01:41:31
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teologad
Ayoka :
so how did you refine. . get less nice?
2026-08-09 23:01:56
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tamz__02
tamz__02 :
Is the lesson that he came around cuz you went about your day like you didn’t care and didn’t get emotional?
2026-08-10 04:52:11
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nailideas24087544
user24 :
I can't stop staring at your nails ❤️
2026-08-08 17:58:34
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lanellie_
Lanellieforeva_ :
Haha omg I love love love this
2026-08-10 03:04:21
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owls_and_emeralds
Unconventional/tester account :
It doesn’t.
2026-08-08 18:24:22
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klawdz_
Claudz✨ :
A babyyyyyy?? Where have I been???? & ur in the city ?? No more SD?? Girllllll
2026-08-08 22:04:59
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innah.k
innah.k :
Well done on not escalating the argument (and thank you for sharing) but I am looking forward to the actual pivoting and how to go back on going on dates in part 3
2026-08-10 14:54:12
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lidobee
Adrian :
What does refine look like tho?
2026-08-11 02:14:50
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bayareajessbling
Jess Bling |Bay Area Living 🏡 :
The message in this is going to go over so many women’s heads. And that’s partly what’s wrong with relationships. Great job getting out of the house and going for a run and regulating yourself 💖 emotions never put us in a great place. What you did was incredible. And I’m very proud of you. And noticed with the space he came around. Relationships are not perfect and people lose sight of that. The point is to find somebody that will work with you. He could’ve went to bed and ignored the whole conversation. I’m glad that when you got back you both could talk 💖
2026-08-14 04:41:52
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fk_fatimakhan
Fatima :
I totally agree with that 💯
2026-08-14 20:51:42
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