@bennylichtenwalner: If an expert told you that your ex is a fearful of wind, there’s a good chance that they got it wrong. The reason why is that fearful avoidant also known as disorganized attachment can serve as a catchall for situations people don’t understand because it’s been named as an attachment style that encompasses an anxious and wouldn’t behavior, but so does all of humanity. The best way to tell attachment styles to look at how people act in conflict and to determine their core wound by doing so. DM me the word Benny for help with your ex.