@thechrishinton: What does your relationship need from you right now—not what the loudest voice in your head wants? Learning to step out of the classmate and become the teacher can completely change how you show up in your relationships. #relationshipadvice #selfawareness #selfleadership #emotionalintelligence #relationships
Been through two divorces and I have not been in a serious relationship since 2015.
2026-10-03 19:10:07
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gina.4611 :
You explained this so well…The problem is, I am the only one gardening.. 36 years together, but I’m still trying to grow this garden through all this..
2026-08-10 11:22:01
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honeyma36 :
What happens if your partner has no teacher?
2026-08-11 18:48:11
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Pena Martha :
Yea but when he makes plans with you then changes the plans and gos with his friends. Not the first time but he doesn’t see anything wrong w him choosing his friends over his wife .
2026-08-08 19:03:09
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Christina :
People who still struggle with finding the teacher. The teacher asks questions and is curious. It doesn’t have to get something fixed right now. The teacher can pause and listen with their ears. That is who your teacher is.
2026-08-08 23:08:49
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Malcador :
What if a relationship is built for a kid? I dont know if thats enough
2026-08-09 08:57:24
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Tommaso🇮🇹/🇮🇪☦️ :
It’s all of them
2026-08-30 04:35:11
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Loretta :
The garden.. that was how I explained to my daughter why I had to leave. I was the only one tending the garden we said we'd tend together. Interestingly, irl, literally the garden I was cultivating (he kept the house) is overgrown and ugly now that I'm no longer there to tend it...literally.
2026-08-10 00:04:46
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Carrie Olson Grant :
Great advice really resonates with me
2026-08-09 15:23:00
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Karen :
i just hate how hard it is nowadays to love and be loved
everyday a thousand things try to kill you, yet you still have to sacrifice your left power to even have a relationship
2026-08-08 19:48:45
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Dee Fefe :
This is an incredibly deep and intelligent analogy. Very well thought out. I wish most people used this type of thoughtfulness when it came to relationships.
2026-08-08 22:33:07
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Candace :
I saw both of these videos today and I am in the middle of my relationship falling apart and I really needed these so thank you. I am gonna take a good look at our garden and figure out what is best
2026-08-23 00:42:17
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🌈 Méliah :
I found your videos when I was being abused out of my marriage. I actually thought I was going insane! You popped up on my feed tonight… I’m healing.
2026-08-09 01:20:14
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babyjane :
I love your wisdom… thank you💕.
2026-08-08 19:29:43
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Michelle Clayton :
I needed to see this
2026-08-13 03:43:46
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Angel Erica M :
I love this perspective thank you 🙏
2026-08-16 06:07:01
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Gina ❌️ :
Thank you 💯
2026-08-08 20:25:05
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Muchotravka :
the one that's done waiting 😢
2026-08-08 19:06:16
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Baily :
Ouch!
2026-08-09 02:43:09
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What's Chris doing now :
found your book, 3rd chapter so far. looking forward to the rest of the book.
2026-08-09 18:20:01
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Paula :
I am talking about a relationship with a roommate and I have properly requested some boundaries and she doesn’t respect them. I can lovingly forgive and I don’t forget the incident because I want to learn from it. I don’t throw them up because I want to be repetitive I just have to remind them that this behavior is being repeated and it is hurtful to our relationships as roommate.
2026-08-09 16:24:32
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Amber Nicole :
But what if you’re the only one asking these questions for the betterment of the relationship and your partner never thinks like this and doesn’t really care to think better or try to improve themselves for their relationship🥺
2026-08-09 12:51:21
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Torok, Dinosaur hunter :
Also, none of this applies if there is any form of abuse- leave.
2026-08-12 02:13:01
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beachbum2318 :
What happens when it’s all of them wanting to leave?
2026-08-11 02:17:11
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Glamngarden :
✨ stepping outside one’s ego….taking a eagle’s eye view ✨
2026-08-09 02:06:26
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