Ill befriend you if ur fem, but im attracted to masc men...cant rly controll it.
2026-08-09 16:19:16
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yerp :
This mindset came from years ago when masculine guys were just asshats towards feminine guys. That is the internalized homophobia, not the preference for masc men. But like most things people took that and ran sooo far with it and now we’re here
2026-08-10 03:22:08
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unknown user :
I’m masc but I don’t want a fem. I want a guy
2026-08-10 02:47:20
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Hrtqfr :
Same. If I'm gay it's cause I'm attracted to masculinity 😭
2026-08-09 20:23:47
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jac :
Feminine guys never, ever want to date other feminine guys. Yet, I have never seen anyone tell them that they have internalized homophobia
2026-08-09 21:33:25
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Lunovi :
No one has a problem with you guys being into masc4masc, the issue is that some of you put down fem4masc and hate on us
2026-08-09 23:58:40
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hunter jeff :
from my POV, that’s js personal preference when it comes to the type of guy you want. like me, i personally fw feminine guys more than masc guys. that’s normal imo, everyone’s got their own type.
but internalized homophobia is different. it’s when you’re gay but you feel the need to put down feminine guys, masc guys, or other gay dudes just for being themselves. like, having a preference is one thing, but disrespecting someone just bc they don’t fit your idea of what a gay man “should” look or act like? that’s when it’s giving internalized homophobia
2026-08-09 11:05:35
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jero💫 :
No, but don’t say „im not like them“ and them in a degrading way
2026-08-09 21:04:00
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Lobycolby :
Its preference, people like that genuinely make me mad, Ill be friends with fems but on the topic for a boyfriend? I prefer mine to be masc
2026-08-09 22:02:16
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kingoking fan :
That’s because that’s what it is
2026-08-09 13:20:34
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Brad🥱 :
its preference, which is fine i dont get why its a big deal to people 😭 everyone has a preference, its only a problem when you start bashing the people that dont fit your preference
2026-08-10 00:47:30
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Ian<3 :
Its not about that, its when guys say “i want to date a real man” basically saying femenine men arent men
2026-08-09 22:43:42
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𝑲𝒆𝒗 ⭑ :
That’s your preference
2026-08-09 08:11:36
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Jupiter :
Because a lot of masc for mascs dont just have a preference. They genuinely think theyre better than fems because “im gay but not that gay”
2026-08-10 01:04:20
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Kaleka :
It’s not internalized homophobia if you have a preference and as long as you treat fems the same as everyone else
2026-08-09 22:43:11
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manu :
it’s just a preference
2026-08-09 13:49:42
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Thomas van Ballegoy :
It’s not internalised, usually it’s just homophobia and 9/10 times sexism
2026-08-10 00:12:05
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Yoshi :
I don’t get that either tbh
2026-08-09 10:22:47
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pandesarten :
Im bi and I really like the masculinity, in man and woman’s
2026-08-10 01:48:42
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Smuttypigeon :
The irony is that wanting feminine guys is actually what's internalised homophobia.
2026-08-10 01:41:09
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iasonas_.444 :
Tbf, as long as youre not degrading fems then youre good
2026-08-09 22:07:28
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ʲᵃʸˢᵗᵃʳ ( ˘ ³˘)♥︎🕷️ :
Like I see feminine guys more as friends and not romantic interest😭
2026-08-09 16:48:52
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TwinkDeath :
I think it’s childish way of thinking. Idc how my partner expresses themselves. Why categorize your partner in a box (fem/masc). You’re already holding expectations for your future partner instead of letting them be whoever they want.
2026-08-09 23:07:43
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Luka :
It’s just a preference what 😭💔
2026-08-09 20:13:16
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