Undeniable
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Saturday 08 August 2026 19:58:18 GMT
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Ivaliah :
This is a dangerous message. Someone in an abusive relationship will see this and think this is their sign to stay and be “a little more patient”.
2026-08-10 07:15:03
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Chancey :
This is not your sign btw
2026-08-09 02:34:36
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🕴️ :
everyone is these comments are just hurt and pain blinds & it’s causing yall to miss the point of this paragraph
2026-08-09 06:14:14
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mouna tanani :
But the minute it starts to cost u ur peace and makes u cry every single night u need to realize that it is time to let go, nothing comes before ur peace, i agree that u have to fight for who u love but when it strats to drain u u wont understand how much of a big negative effect it has on u until u lose ur spark and sanity, we all struggle to show out love but at least we show to our person how much we try, so no when it costs u ur peace then keep trying doesn't matter and certainly doesn't show ur emotional intelligence.
2026-08-08 22:20:16
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Briors :
i think social media rlly fucked relationships in this generation. this paragraph is 100% correct. main thing is both ppl gotta be in this together, no matter what.
2026-08-09 14:00:55
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lijuuuuy :
People need to touch grass
2026-08-10 11:33:54
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:
I actually think it’s the exact opposite and most people are slowly losing their emotional intelligence. I think we confuse it for nonchalance and stoicism
2026-08-09 01:47:45
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gimmeurdata :
Don’t look for someone finished. Look for someone participatory
2026-08-10 06:39:30
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Oyin💘 :
this!!! there’s a difference between someone who’s imperfect and someone who’s unwilling to grow. 🤍
2026-08-10 20:01:53
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тяιρs :
we turned loving to chores 💔
2026-08-09 01:47:41
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_zulekhaa_ :
Omo!! No talk this thing again 😭 What do you mean 8 years and I haven’t been patient enough?? Now I’m literally fighting to move on!! Wrong message abeg 😭
2026-08-10 14:59:25
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LD :
If someone loves you deeply and still doesn’t have it all together (mentally I’m not talking abt finance or whatever) then that person shouldn’t be dating that’s it. Before finding ur person you gotta find yourself first and work on urself that’s emotional intelligence, people are just rushing themselves into relationships
2026-08-10 14:20:06
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V ᥫ᭡ :
This, BUT IF it costs you your emotional, physical, and spiritual peace, please, choose yourself and leave. ✨
2026-08-10 04:57:05
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-_- :
Life isn’t beautiful because we’re perfect. It’s beautiful because we grow. Real love isn’t looking for someone without flaws it’s choosing someone who’s willing to grow through them. The moment perfection becomes the standard, people don’t heal anymore. They just learn how to hide who they really are.
2026-08-10 12:54:48
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c_hinwendu :
nahhh u can't change people and many are not that self aware to identify when they're the problem.
2026-08-10 08:58:25
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therealerinamber :
I think my personal biggest struggle is understanding the difference between giving grace and accepting when someone is truly not for you. I always find a reason to stay, understand, and make excuses. I take much longer to choose myself first and realize that patterns followed by inconsistency means it’s a choice they’re making. And that choice isn’t me
2026-08-10 04:01:02
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adrian9dkp :
a world full of people who wants to be loved but doesnt know how to accept it
2026-08-09 08:13:46
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TA :
True but some things need to be worked on independently before attempting to be in a relationship, and at times “waiting while people figure things out” is tragic because why wait for someone who genuinely refuses to improve? Be patient to a reasonable extent but you can’t sacrifice your peace and your time to “fix” someone it’s not your job
2026-08-08 23:04:07
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⃟ :
but people don’t easily admit this. they just all wanna pretend like we all have it figured out and expect the world of everyone else. people seem to forget that we are all human which means that we are bound to mess up or hurt each other. don’t get me wrong i’m not saying forgive disrespect but grace should be given.
2026-08-08 20:35:49
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damien :
i adore your writing so much
2026-08-08 20:04:23
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Valentinaaa :
Red flags are not mistakes, red flags are not negotiable and that’s why you cut them off the first time. Yellow flags can be worked but red flags are a sure goodbye
2026-08-09 14:05:36
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👾Kenna👾 :
Emotionally intelligence has turned into a shield. We process more than we experience. We determine more than we understand. We're supposedly healed but can't tolerate anything. The point of growing is not about ascending above everything or needing everything to be constantly peaceful so we never test ourselves against what we've actually learned. Too many people call themselves emotionally intelligent but lack emotional groundedness or stability.
2026-08-09 03:25:05
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tida 🪭₊˚⊹ᰔ :
this is what we call unconditional love
2026-08-09 03:23:32
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A Aire :
i don’t agree with this… a lot of people are not becoming emotionally intelligent looll. as someone with emotional intelligence, i just see people who just don’t understand the concept of so many things, people that don’t even try to get to know themselves, people who give excuses for their poor behaviour… ugh the list is long. it’s not that we don’t want people who have things that will inconvenience us, it’s that we know what we want and how one’s supposed to act… and using the excuse that you’ve been through something… or not being healed from past things that now affect your behaviour to another person is still a lame excuse, your fault or not… ehh i can go on but yeah i disagree with this
2026-08-09 20:16:52
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