My life got 10,000 times better when I started embracing my judgments and honoring my discomfort
2026-08-09 16:47:26
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harlie :
genuinely i think if you’re into kink, you need to put in the work to understand the why behind it. i don’t have an issue with kink so much as I have an issue with people engaging with it with no reflection, research, or attempt to understand what in their life drew them away from “traditional” dynamics. it’s kind of the same way i feel about plastic surgery: if you understand WHY you feel pressure to do it and still decide to do it, that’s your choice. but doing it just because you feel like you ‘should’ is where the problem arises.
2026-08-10 12:00:47
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fairyukraine :
it’s like the pendulum swing women were shamed (and still are) for sleeping around and now women are being shamed for being prudish we can never win
2026-08-09 00:30:50
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SSS :
I’ve gotten torn to SHREDS on Reddit for this 😭
2026-08-10 12:03:28
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spearmintslayer :
never a bad take
2026-08-13 00:04:26
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Potsandpansexual :
I would LOVE to hear you opinion on the bi man discourse
2026-08-08 20:47:12
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kerryvanessa13 :
Especially if the kink is violent or violence adjacent. NO.
2026-08-10 15:00:07
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Cara :
mmmmmhmm
2026-08-12 03:31:52
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🥀🖤Rebelle🖤🥀 :
Sex positivity was pushed on women to allow for easier access to women’s bodies for men. Casual sex rarely is beneficial to women. Women carry the risk of pregnancy and a higher risk of disease
2026-08-09 02:04:21
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kenz :
i am just so tired of misogyny always having to take a backseat to every other thing. and that talking about misogyny somehow takes away from other convos
2026-08-10 13:26:52
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Divine :
I was called closed minded to sexuality lmao yeah. For sure I am. Then I was told to unpack that. Why? I’m perfectly happy and satisfied lol
2026-08-09 05:35:43
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🪷 :
Please write books
2026-08-08 20:24:08
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sicklittlefreakshow :
oof the torture I put myself through in my early twenties in order to appear sex positive lolol
2026-08-11 04:17:23
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cc :
tbh i think this IS her response to the bi topic lol
2026-08-09 01:30:43
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cooldipbeans :
you’re genuinely my icon
2026-08-08 20:20:26
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clo 🍀 :
i hate how the entire discourse seems to dismiss asexual people. a lot of ppl are just assuming that ppl who aren’t sexually active are “conservative, prudish, alt-right, evangelical” and it’s so DUMB bc it couldn’t be further from the truth 😂
2026-08-11 10:15:32
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RadFemme :
Yep. Ladies don’t give af and stick to your boundaries
2026-08-08 21:42:12
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🐍Sammy :
Literally never let anyone tell you what to do with your own body. It doesn't matter if you only like one position and to only do the act after 10pm, if thats what makes you comfortable stick to it. No one is entitled to fuck you, especially in a way you're uncomfortable with.
2026-08-09 07:05:22
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Roryboredyalice :
Please don't ever let people convince you that your voice is not important and valuable. keep speaking truth. never stop. 💖
2026-08-08 21:00:30
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DapplegrayManor :
I’m 52. When a was a teenager and 20 something, there was still kinda stigma around women claiming their sexual energy and having casual sex, but fairly soon after, it was nbd except in conservative circles. What is frustrating me now is that women owning and celebrating sexual freedom without shame has been weaponized by the patriarchy😳. It’s now women who don’t want to partake in casual sex, and those who are turned on by vanilla who are shamed, because men once again have taken our sexual freedom to say no or be uncomfortable with “weird” stuff (I’m not kink shaming, I’m just trying to work with what’s allowed on TT). I was shocked by the entitlement of the vm dude demanding sex on the second date and how many people were shaming her for not wanting to be intimate so quickly. IMO girls and women shouldn’t be shamed for being vanilla or being….whatever they call not vanilla 😂.
2026-08-09 17:52:04
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kiaraannmarie :
you’re like my older sister in my eyes
2026-08-08 21:13:00
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plate :
I think it's interesting that the discourse is around unpacking why you don't want to date a bi man. But none of these people seem to ask anyone to unpack why the find dd / lg sexy. maybe get to the root of that...?
2026-08-09 00:15:11
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ruth5461 :
REALLLL
2026-08-08 20:22:29
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Anna 𖣂 :
every single time i see one of ur vids i couldn’t agree more, you are so brave and so impactful i hope you know how much you are helping people by educating them ❤️
2026-08-08 20:27:05
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