@thehealingcleric: That first breadcrumb from an avoidant can feel like hope—but it can also pull you right back into the cycle you were finally healing from. One text, one like, one “I miss you,” and suddenly you’re questioning everything again. Protect your peace. Don’t confuse a breadcrumb with real consistency. 🧠 #AvoidantAttachment #Breadcrumbing #HealingJourney #NoContact #RelationshipAdvice
Yep. I got “just want you to know you are thought of often” I went back and it ended worse then the first time. Immediate block Never again.
2026-08-10 10:26:22
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Rico Jimenez586 :
mine told a friend of ours im making everything awkward and complicated...
2026-08-10 02:02:31
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Cardinal :
10 months post discard, I haven’t heard a peep from her since then.
2026-08-09 18:48:00
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Darc :
Yup! Never, and I mean Never have I ever dealt with an avoidant before. This is new territory and it sucks!
2026-08-09 23:53:23
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Pablocrz :
The first breadcrumb was so unexpected she left me when my mom was battling with cancer and then like 5 months after leaving me alone she just appears with a bunch of flowers 😐 (for her) and saying that she was sorry
2026-08-09 16:43:32
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username5642784 :
Happened 4 hours ago im all fucked up
2026-08-10 00:05:48
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TRON🎣🇺🇸💯 :
I’d usually be mad for a few days
2026-08-10 01:15:59
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evol.ni.si.ynot 🥹♥️🇺🇸 :
it is sooooo difficult. I've never been here before and it really messes with your mind
2026-08-09 11:35:17
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Jacq :
100%. F me up so bad
2026-08-09 21:19:45
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Cassie :
Fun fact we still live together so having to see each other often after the discard is wild
2026-08-10 03:56:48
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razorsharpwit :
they need therapy. thats what I concluded. im also doing therapy for me. I dont ever want to have a relationship with her again, but I promised if she needed to come back even for a hug, I would let her in the door. those are the rules. no relationship. but I can offer compassion.
2026-08-09 12:21:05
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Bella :
So no “I’m so sorry…. Here is all the work I’ve done on myself… here’s how I want to treat you differently… “ ?
2026-08-09 10:53:13
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SoulfulSage :
I was with one for a year before I knew what an avoidant was…. They discarded me with a long text from a fake number I was heartbroken that happened on July 17th & now since two days ago they like my post & look at my stories smh…. At first my heart skipped a beat but I haven’t said anything or text him…. I really don’t want to deal with the hurt all over again
2026-08-10 04:08:56
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josh_in_the_forrest :
I was finally getting better and not constantly dwelling then she unblocked me… and no im questioning everything again
2026-08-09 06:16:03
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Fadia Abu Samra :
no. i m friend now with his Ex. woman unite ❤️🤟
2026-08-09 16:14:11
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username5642784 :
Mine: everything going ok?
2026-08-10 00:06:06
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Amy🐙 :
he came to my house today to tell me he was Gana marry me one day. 😭 I loved him I just can't go back three years he never made a plan now a month broken up we were Gana get married.
2026-08-09 10:12:13
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RxBones :
No. You don’t want them to breadcrumb you. Leave them avoidants alone…forever!
2026-08-09 22:14:56
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es5o4 :
😁😁😁
2026-08-09 03:28:21
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