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Rather_Be_In_Maine :

I’m going to give you some old man advice. When I was younger, I got cheated on. A lot. So I came into my marriage with some huge trust issues. Anyone who tells you that means you’re somehow at fault is someone you shouldn’t listen to. Trust is earned and must be maintained. It’s both earned and maintained through consistent action. Here’s the part that’s really important. If you stop this girl from going out or try to make her feel guilty about it, and she doesn’t go, what you have isn’t trust, it’s compliance. If you want her to earn your trust, you have to give her unrestricted opportunities to earn it. Also, trust isn’t a binary. There’s nothing “wrong” with being suspicious of new situations that don’t have clear behavior attached to them.

Vil Z :

who is “Rather_Be_In_Maine”

minion.lover927 :

see i get this but also if she’s a real one it doesn’t matter how many ppl come up to her bc she has someone at home. women get hit on at the gym in class at the store, going out doesn’t matter, a cheater will cheat anywhere- if she isn’t a cheater why r u stressed

cotywithat :

If it’s gonna happen it’s gonna happen. You will never stop it. Just love your partner and enjoy the time and if they do go behind you like that leave. It’s that simple. Killing yourself mentally about the what if will only cause a barrier in between you all and push them away eventually.

Els👹 :

This is not insecurity this is the genetically programmed emotion for men for the women they love!! You want to do everything to protect whilst trusting her, you know what the world is like and you know how men are so yes it is okay to think like this 🫶🫶

Daimen :

It’s just hot girl tax homie

Blah-ouchie :

Trust her until she gives you a reason not to

Shymeerrr :

@Rather_Be_In_Maine thanks a lot

silas :

if she cheats she cheats. it is no reflection of you but rather on her. it’ll hurt, yes. but if the only way you have a loyal partner is for you to be a helicopter boyfriend, you wouldn’t really want to be with that person. you deserve someone that loves you and will be loyal in every situation, not just when or because you’re jealous or suspicious. even still, if they wanna cheat they will find a way, trust me. but then you’ll know it was never meant to be. enjoy your time with her, and if it ends it ends. if it doesn’t, it doesn’t.

ℕ𝕚𝕔𝕜 :

Nah it’s normal to worry abt her but you can’t control her, just don’t put up w her hanging out w other guys when you aren’t around cause you can trust her but you can’t trust other guys.

. :

I feel this, my wife has been going out and wears crazy things, stuff like pasties undershirts with bras and super short skirts and staying out till 2. But I’m insecure for not wanting a married woman doing allat

George :

Wym by goes out…? Like partying and clubbing? Then she’s not the marriage type

David :

I got no problem admitting I’m insecure, ik I’m not the best man out there

syrop :

yeah you must keep it in the head that she's never 100% yours

- 𝕯-𝕽𝖆𝖞 - :

Bruh my heart hurt when my girl wanted to be a cheerleader, it hurts when she goes to football games, and it hurts anytime she seems even a little bit off. I’m always so worried and insecure when it comes to her, there’s genuinely no getting over it. You js gon have to get used to it.

Theflash :

normal to have those feelings. the way I see it though is if something does happen than idc cause she obviously ain't the one, if nothing happens then there's no problem so we cool.

GringuitoColombiano :

Ain’t nothing to sweat about, you can’t control what some other dude comes up and says but she can control how she reacts. My wife mean as a mofo and so are her friends so I sleep deep and comfy. If your with a beautiful woman peoples are going to think she’s beautiful too.

schultzyyaboi :

it’s normal

KeenKicKbAcK :

Completely normal gng

Anthony :

If she going out without you it’s already wraps bro 😂

ScrapYardCrafts :

lol these horrible comments from a bunch of insecure dudes that have never been to therapy and have no idea what a healthy loving relationship looks like 😂 my therapist would say, “you cannot let past trauma influence and effect the way you see other unique individuals. Yeah notice red flags, have conversations, but also know that if you’re not prepared to potentially be hurt, and don’t trust yourself with what will happen if that hurt occurs, then you’re not ready for a relationship with another human being. Relationships are about love and trust. If you’d trust your friends and family in these situations trust your choice in partner. Now if your life styles don’t align to the point you’re always upset, maybe you guys aren’t as compatible as you thought and that’s okay too. If she goes out too much for you and that’s a boundary you have then you need to let this one go, not change them. You need to seek out and find someone that wants the same things you want.”

Flo :

BigBankLeo ♌️ :

I mean , it don’t matter what someone else tries to do , only thing that matters is how she handles it.. if she goin she goin and if she ain’t she ain’t

awhkal :

It’s not insecure, it’s logical. You are correct. The problem is, she doesn’t respect you. Your thoughts and feelings mean nothing to her. She expects you to protect her yet she won’t let you. The only way to deal with her is to tell her that you are not ok with her going out without you the way she does. She can go, she’s a big girl and is responsible for her own choices, you have no control over that. But you have to have enough self respect to not be in a relationship with a girl who doesn’t respect you. She can go, but she won’t be in a relationship with you. You have to explain it to her like that, and if she goes, don’t let her back.