Marriage is a covenant and we are taught that it is hard and you work through it and you go through some serious ups and some serious downs so when it’s not going well, you don’t realize it’s a sign. You think it’s a phase of marriage that will pass and then you end up with a child and a husband who cheats when you’re in postpartum period. How do you know what’s a difficult phase and what’s a “sign”???
2026-08-09 16:44:42
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Fran 🐾 :
I would add a note: we see the signs, but we choose the path of survival for a greater reason—family, the children, the love that was, the friendship that was. We prefer to fight.
2026-08-09 14:14:12
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Jen333☀️ :
For First time in forever l trusted myself and cut it off… the evidence arrived after 😂 I’m still proud of me…
2026-08-09 12:19:49
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miriambridget :
we fear regret so we give our last just to prove a point
2026-08-09 15:12:13
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look.what.v.found :
Wow 😮 someone give this man a stage 👏
2026-08-10 02:20:07
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Van NY :
The signs can only be trusted after some healing happened…before that the nervous system needs higher triggers (because it’s so damaged)
2026-08-09 12:29:00
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Webster62 :
I always waited for the straw that broke the camel’s back. Now I’m present enough to recognize that the red flags are starting to stack. I get out before my back breaks.
2026-08-12 19:16:01
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Alex Lucas :
Most of the time the ending didn’t come out of nowhere. Your gut had been warning you, the patterns were there, and the red flags kept stacking up. You just kept hoping you were wrong until you weren’t.
2026-08-09 15:43:00
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momolove :
And we start ohh I saw the signs but I ignored them.
sad 😔
2026-08-17 19:58:59
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Ilse Brown :
dhats so tru dhe mind is focus on love and dhe blind tho see love is noth dhere whe dont take dhe time tho now some one afraid dhat dhe walk away dhe chose tho whaith what dhe geth of it whyle uou think fainely ia found love give dhe tulse whe are responsebel fore dhe pain love dont chance People caracther dhus love is blind until fhe pain and trut open your aeys
2026-08-10 01:15:16
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Ems🌈 :
Been there so many times 🤣
2026-08-11 18:12:01
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123 :
This is so so true💯
2026-08-10 15:36:52
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leena20211 :
Sometimes we run into the sort of ppl we have never encountered before. Their social mask is so well constructed that you question yourself because they are respected/admired by many ppl. It isn't until you have those patterns of behaviour appear, then some significant issues, that you realize a whole lot is wrong. I cared, I supported, in hindsight I can see it all clearly but I'm not going to feel bad for giving to the wrong person. My mistake & I learned a lot.
2026-08-09 12:48:44
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Dena :
This is me these days and it feels so great i love . Peace all the time
2026-08-09 12:50:18
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Sauti ya ndani :
It’s like we wait for things to get better 🥺
2026-08-18 11:53:06
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Joy Jiyane :
Bruh
2026-08-09 18:55:55
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littleslim :
agreed 100 %
2026-08-15 15:17:13
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Echo :
we know it but ignore anyways
2026-08-10 19:24:05
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d4vi35 :
There’s something like a superego problem here. As a child, you were programmed to doubt your feelings and intuition by parents and teachers who demanded (for various reasons, some good, some bad) more solid evidence of a problem than your vague sense of foreboding.
2026-08-09 16:29:05
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Emma5363 :
This is 💯 correct
2026-08-15 02:44:46
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AP :
Tq
👍👍👍
2026-08-19 11:24:46
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mtorsky :
Perfectly said
2026-08-15 12:56:08
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Winging My Way Through Life :
you are fantastic at putting it into words, I felt all of this, thank you
2026-08-10 06:56:15
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RoseMS2025 :
You are so correct
2026-08-09 14:02:45
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