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RJV2324 :
Ok I found girl tiktok. Question for yall. Me and her have been talking for 6 weeks. I was a little overwhelming at first but she saw it that was because she’s having trouble mentally and with other stuff outside with us and that made my overwhelming side very bright to her. Ladies how do I help her thru that time. We’re in our late 20’s. Shes an ovethinker
2026-08-30 05:06:47
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Joshawill :
High risk, high effort, low reward.
2026-08-09 15:16:00
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Nives :
Why can’t Avidant learn our language or communicate normally? 🤔🤯🤯🤯
2026-08-10 13:00:29
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Jim Goforth :
Me and my avoidant girl actually created our own entire language of terms and words and phrases that would make absolutely no sense to anyone else under the sun
2026-08-21 11:32:28
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Kiara :
avoidants should date each other
2026-08-19 17:59:40
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Bonstyler :
Staying with an avoident will break you mentally. Not worth it.
2026-08-23 11:20:39
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MumS :
Why “avoidant”? We are trying to label their behaviour and I don’t understand it. Maybe he’s just not interested anymore, it’s that simple.
2026-08-12 16:49:33
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Wine blossom :
I don’t think learning the language of an avoidant is about babying them and excusing them from the work they have to put into themselves but rather about trying to meet them in the middle. Healing takes time, and sometimes you end up taking a step backwards instead of forwards, but that’s just how it goes. Understanding the psychology behind is a tool to give them grace and understanding without being left confused. If you don’t have the bandwidth to put in all this extra work then that’s perfectly fine. But if you do have the means and are willing to put in this effort in order to make that relationship work then this is just a tool.
2026-08-10 16:09:32
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Sharkbyter :
I was just telling my FA partner last night, (I am also FA but different presentation, more anxious lean and internal shoe drop prep without the running, and more healed than him), that people with attachment wounds aren't broken, they are just running on outdated software that needs multiple patches to get up to current code. He really liked that analogy. Lol. At the time, said software was exactly what was needed, and working as intended. It just never got the future patch updates so it takes a bit to get caught up. xD
2026-08-09 15:54:00
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Le soleil.skin.studio :
Explain the language please
2026-08-09 15:19:15
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𝓟𝓪𝓾𝓵 / 폴 :
Bree, what’s the best solution when someone wants to be deeply understood but won’t help me to understand? I’m willing to put in the work…
2026-08-09 14:36:52
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well I have an another question. what do you when you're the avoidant like does it get easier with time?
2026-08-09 18:34:30
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Michelle :
I agree. it's really about empathy and communication. now, nobody can make and avoidant want to work on themselves, or a relationship. this isn't about chasing or manipulating them or gaslighting ourselves. it's the work of being in a relationship with anyone. however, understanding where they are coming from (the history, hows, and whys) can serve us anyway; even when it's time to say goodbye. understanding that avoidant behaviors are responses to nervous system triggers can allow us to let go in an easier way.
2026-08-13 13:53:28
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W Ford130 :
I could never be mad at you 🤣🤣
2026-08-09 15:12:23
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Verly Hills :
my boyfriend is a fearful aviodant and he demanded we breakup last month after 6weeks of no contact but 1week after the breakup he started texting me again then yesterday we met at a birthday party, got talking and finally we ended up in bed 😏😏.I'm honestly so confused right now because I don't know what we are presently especially because we got intimate last night. I'm thinking of bringing up the topic with him but I need advice from you all. please what do I do
2026-08-09 22:19:28
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justcurious :
I just can never tell if she's not interested enough or acting like this because she loves me but that's also the reason to avoid me 🤡
2026-08-09 16:23:34
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Steve Cole Life Coach :
Thank you, thank you, thanks you bree. Youre my favourite.
2026-08-11 03:17:36
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The Perry :
ummmmm what is the language?
2026-08-10 21:12:27
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The Blessing Report :
Facts it’s dumb lol
2026-08-10 10:58:34
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Stef :
Is a no for me
2026-08-12 11:19:22
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さそりママ🍷精神科作業療法士 :
avoidant if they realize they can't live without their partner,they also learn the partner's culture and language.
2026-08-10 15:52:54
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Elisa🏆 | 🅰️☄️ :
Rn I’m giving him space
2026-08-10 01:54:05
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loris_selfloving :
I believe in avoidant, and anxious we are all to heal with ourselves, but to understand the other. It’s not one-sided. We can learn to understand and avoidant and how they think but reciprocation on learning how an anxious or even a secure person how we go through. It’s not fair for just one person to take the hit and have to fit into someone attachment. Both heal, both learn eachother
2026-08-16 18:29:13
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Roark :
Or they can seek help
2026-08-17 04:40:49
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