been sitting with something from The Hidden Rules of Attachment by Maya Ellison… the part about how some of us don’t miss the person, we miss the role they played in our nervous system. still processing that.
2026-08-11 16:29:07
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Yago :
i kept waiting for him to become consistent. then The Hidden Rules of Attachment pointed out i was waiting for a version of him that only existed in my head. that hit different.
2026-08-11 16:29:07
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Startingoverat_46 :
Rich, bad boy, cheater.
2026-08-09 18:22:59
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francis drake :
false
2026-09-24 20:46:15
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leocrack2412 :
funny how we call it “chemistry” when half the time it’s just our body reacting to inconsistency. Maya Ellison explains that in a way that made me put the book down for a minute.
2026-08-11 16:29:06
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ROM :
i used to think i needed closure so bad. then i read in The Hidden Rules of Attachment that closure is just another way to stay attached. kinda messed me up ngl.