Shiba Togami :
NTA, I never encourage screaming as a form of communication, but this time I kinda understand. Because you were near your breaking point, considering divorce, you communicated your state and the issue, asked for changes. And then he proceeded to diminish all of that with a prank, a bad taste one to add more, with the intentions of what? To claim he's trying when he clearly is not? You ask for details, little affectionate gestures for you. He served himself with what he enjoys. That's not for you, not for the relationship in deed. Then you broke and that's why you screamed so don't feel bad when someone push you to your limits on purpose and you snap. You're not the asshole here. I would divorce, he doesn't see your needs, at least, he doesn't see them as important as his. Maybe at the bottom of all he cares, but that doesn't matter because you shouldn't be needing to beg for small gestures. That should appear unprompted. Effortlessly I would say. You're not talking about grand gestures. it could be chocolate from the store as you stated. He even couldn't do that. how much effort and time would have take to buy some lindor chocolates on a store? 5 minutes and a small detour on the way home? 🤷🏻♂️
2026-08-10 08:18:34