I was JUST thinking about this - literally daydreaming 1 minute ago. The life I have now i will not give up for a man. I’m 143 days sober - 10 years ago I stopped drinking and met a man and started again. He was a bad influence. But also I didn’t have enough love and respect for myself then. Now there is no way in hell I would be with that man and definitely wouldn’t give up my sobriety for ANYONE
2026-08-09 18:31:11
131
Ash :
Also that standards become more natural as you increase your desire for something. Like the more you truly get into why you want to be healthy, then your behaviours naturally match that desire. Instead of feeling like rules or standards you’ve set
2026-08-10 06:12:19
89
timmy :
interestingly enough my concept of interpersonal harm has also shifted the better my life has become. the things that i was hypersensitive about and took intensely personally had much less impact when i had actual stuff going on and stakes to protect 😭
2026-08-10 16:01:59
18
lovelettersfromlola :
I absolutely swear by all of your content
2026-08-10 03:24:23
13
Student of Life 🩵 :
Thank you so much for this. This helped me bring myself out of my head and understand why I don’t feel as grounded or CONCRETE when I talk of my standards. Currently building my life, things to protects :)
2026-08-09 21:05:39
11
user8934988761994 :
Your Videos are SO helpful thank you again
2026-08-09 18:42:46
20
Tsubasa :
Your garden analogy was great wow I’m so glad you exist 😆
2026-08-10 15:58:47
5
Jay💕 LifestyleMedicine :
It’s amazing how much sovereignty feels good in your life. Building something worth protecting
2026-08-11 01:35:32
5
🌸 :
Oh yes because I was going for anything when I felt lost and didn’t have a grasp of what I wanted in life. A+++ video!
2026-08-15 12:12:37
0
user_5431145 :
brilliant
2026-08-09 19:04:33
0
Clara :
that's just the journey
2026-08-09 19:07:04
3
To see more videos from user @amberakilla, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.