@miss.s.ontiktok: Forgiveness shouldn’t be something we pressure victims into! What do you think? #thewizardliz #healing #forgiveness #boundaries @Thewizardliz
The world is misled - Forgiveness isn’t about giving someone a pass from their actions, because even if you did, their actions are still being accounted for, beyond us…Forgiveness is a state of being which allows US to possess the ability to detach from experiences from our lives. Our forgiveness doesn’t create karmic balance, we don’t have such power. So anyone who is practising forgiveness, it has nothing to do with the other person, it’s everything to do with yourself. This lady saying I can’t forgive my dad, is basically saying I don’t forgive myself… she will always be trapped.
2026-08-11 19:29:03
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vio_gabri :
“but she is your mother”… but i’m her daugther too
2026-08-11 08:00:04
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Solfia ☀️ :
It’s pointless to forgive someone who is not capable of feeling empathy.
2026-08-10 19:01:11
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gussly05 :
So true…a victim of that person…💔
2026-08-11 14:20:32
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🥀🖤LadyTaylor16🖤🥀 :
People who try to force you to forgive, are those who are uncomfortable with your pain and want you get over it. They are also people who think that “blood family” provides immunity from consequences
2026-08-11 15:15:43
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Jayw :
It's ok to not forgive people who hurt you, it won't make you bitter or ruin your life either.
2026-08-11 18:07:11
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szprotka_finansjery :
She is 100% right.
2026-08-11 09:51:54
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Logic debater :
Forgive yourself for trying to forgive him.
2026-08-10 15:31:51
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ellen bannerman :
I agree with her
2026-08-11 07:44:18
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conrankule :
no such thing as a victims forgiveness it is the offender duty to forgive themselves for their crimes and sins.
2026-08-11 19:22:47
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Isabella Forsberg Laugesen :
its okay to walk away and never go back. trauma is real and it's fucked up.
2026-08-11 11:11:31
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Locanato :
100% Right
2026-08-11 09:44:19
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maca :
Love this thank you ❤️
2026-08-11 15:01:33
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ivanbrst :
i agree with the fact we don’t have to forgive everyone but the way she say if he died she would be happy is not an healthy thing and it’s a sadistic coping mechanism..she isn’t serene about it
2026-08-10 12:01:32
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Tim :
Young people don't know yet. Let them learn.
2026-08-10 20:21:53
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🎀 ✩ 𝓜𝓪𝓻𝔂 ✩ 🎀 :
only god knows how much i understand her… ❤️🩹
2026-08-11 06:48:20
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Moncompte12 :
What did he do?
2026-08-10 16:36:03
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Evie :
"but he's your father" I was his daughter 4yrs old and he made a choice to hurt me so bad it still affects me at 51. The day he died a weight was lifted of my shoulders , a fear was lifted. I do not forgive , I am not the protector of his peace
2026-08-11 09:50:06
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Naomi Tjon-A-Soi :
Forgiveness is not for them. Its for yourself so you Can let it go. The lord knows, it’s up to lord.
2026-08-11 12:35:51
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Penny4athought :
i mean she's right 😉
2026-08-11 05:51:18
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K I K I - A M S T E R D A M 🌸 :
They had their choises. I have mine.
2026-08-11 07:54:52
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Rach :
"he was my father"- he never gave a shit about me he left me like I was nothing why should I care and nothings changed ?
2026-08-11 10:00:46
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