@thedailyflirt: Comment “GIFT” for my free Ghost Busting Guide so you never get ghosted again. When she goes cold on text, most guys either send a double text that screams desperation or just disappear and wonder what happened. There’s a third option. Wait two to three days. Then send something completely unrelated to where you left off. Something like: “Just opened the unpickable pickle jar. Self-esteem is at an all-time high.” Or: “Something happened this week you would have absolutely loved. Remind me to tell you.”