@aaronsanfor88: Incase you weren’t. #fyp #foryou #xyzbca

extreme1 :

I’ve been told if I follow the woman’s 300 step and ever changing process to meet her emotional needs that perhaps in 6 months to a couple years she will start to acknowledge my efforts, but I can expect zero effort and zero changes on her part, I am so done!

Nadi :

vice versa. not only man should lead like that, also women. in a relationship everything should be equal and fair for both. a man isn't handling a child but a grown ass woman.

Nick Flack :

and... if you're energy doesn't calm her and quiet her, you need to let her go, she'll never be happy with you. sucked.

Vesnushki 🥀🇷🇺 :

So many comments saying that they don’t want a partner that they feel like they have to raise and handle and I think y’all are missing the point if you actually understood the role of a woman in your life if you actually like women, a woman is supposed to be like your child you’re supposed to move with your spouse as a man the way you would, if you had a kid with patience with gentleness with kindness with a teaching spirit with the providing spirit She’s the church the church does not come to you you go to it and you actually sow into the church financially, and with your time, and in essence, it’s supposed to sow into you spiritually so when you are nurturing and caring and babying your wife, you’re showing her that she can come to you for anything and the same way when you plant a seed in the garden, and you nurture the seed And give it everything that it needs. It’ll bear you the best fruit but if you don’t tend to the garden and you assume that your partner is meant to be a gardener instead of the garden, then you’re both operating off understand your wife isn’t another gardener she is the garden. She is the fruit in which you have sow and she is what you reap.

MikeyMan 🐢 :

I try my very best and sometimes I fall short, but when do the feelings get reciprocated back to me?

Christina :

Im gonna cancel again than. He can’t understand that he drains my energy and never refills me.

South of sanity :

Clarity love and respect only get you cheated on

EuroKrew :

yes but after lie after lie and terminated our child idk. went 4 times around on having a kid and get no respect or communication. im an understanding person i just need the communication to actually understand but yanno us men have to pretend happy and move forward

single life :

Absolutely true. The catch is you can be all this and more and if she decides to leave your cooked and all the time,energy, work, and money you put into it was a waste of time. You can't get your time back wasted resource.

no.just.no2133 :

Bull. My current situation absolutely contradicts this

💋Southerngirlcharm8💋 :

100%

Eargasm :

Negative

🖤Lucy36🖤 :

wow 💯

BrotherDaveUS :

denise :

exactly, thank you.

Jade_mitchell :

soooo true

user4099216792982 :

Yes if your energy and input is not reciprocated, appreciated, validated, honored, the low effort, low vibration person stays unaccountable and self serving

Vic :

thank you!

𝙈𝙪𝙯𝙯𝙮 𝙕𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 :

"teel sate" What are we just not reading what we write before posting it?

Joan Handley. :

You are wrong.

Dokebell :

It’s a man’s job to set the tone” is a nice way of saying women have no responsibility for the relationship they’re participating in. A grown woman isn’t a thermostat waiting for a man to set the temperature. She has her own personality, choices, communication style, trauma, expectations, and accountability. Yes, consistency and respect matter. But relationships aren’t a one-person performance. If a man is inconsistent, he should own that. If a woman is toxic, manipulative, disrespectful, or constantly creating chaos, she should own that too. Stop dressing up lack of accountability as femininity. A healthy relationship isn’t “he leads, she reflects.” It’s two adults bringing their best to the table and taking responsibility when they don’t.

Johnny Derp :

Fuck everything about this post. Partners are supposed to be equal. If I have to wait to be treated equally because I'm not "leading", making the first move, making initiative, that shit ain't equal. Thats not a partner, thats a dependent. And if you want to be treated like a dependent, Ill treat you like a fucking dependent.

Nikki :

I have never followed a man, they are always in the fucking way. 😂🤡