@monieelyse: Autism and ED’s can overlap in ways that are incredibly difficult to recognize, especially when you don’t know you’re autistic. Some behaviors can look like “ED behaviors” on the surface, but the reason behind them may actually be related to autism. For me, that can look like: needing food prepared or presented in very specific ways; sensory sensitivities to textures, smells, temperatures, or combinations of foods; needing foods separated rather than mixed together; needing certain foods to be cut or arranged a particular way; struggling to eat when there is too much sensory input around me; needing predictability and sameness around food; difficulty with changes in how a familiar food is prepared; having very specific sensory preferences around drinking And this is where I think the overlap between autism and eating disorders becomes SO important. Research has found significant overlap between autistic traits and ED’s, especially restrictive ED’s. Autism-related characteristics such as sensory sensitivities, cognitive rigidity, need for sameness, and difficulties with flexibility can directly affect eating behaviors. The problem is that if those behaviors are automatically interpreted as ED behaviors, we can sometimes miss the reason they’re happening in the first place. And that may be one reason some autistic people don’t respond to traditional ED treatment in the way clinicians expect. It isn’t necessarily that they don’t WANT to recover. Sometimes the treatment itself isn’t addressing all of the things affecting their ability to eat. For example, if a sensory need is interpreted only as an ED rule, simply telling someone to “break the rule” doesn’t necessarily address the sensory processing difference underneath it. If rigidity or a need for predictability is interpreted only as resistance, pushing harder may actually make the person more overwhelmed rather than helping them become more flexible. If communication differences aren’t recognized, a patient may also have difficulty explaining WHY something about food feels impossible or intolerable. Research has found that autistic people with ED’s can experience poorer treatment experiences and that standard treatment approaches may need adaptations to better accommodate sensory sensitivities, cognitive differences, communication needs, and rigidity. A 2025 systematic review of the lived experiences of autistic people with restrictive ED’s found that autism-related mechanisms contributing to restrictive eating are not consistently recognized or addressed in current care, highlighting the need for adapted or novel interventions and better clinician training. That doesn’t mean autism makes an ED untreatable. It means treatment may need to be individualized. For someone who is autistic, recovery may involve asking different questions: “What sensory needs are affecting this behavior?” “What makes this food feel safe or unsafe?” “Is this restriction driven by ED thoughts, sensory processing, or both?” “What accommodations could make eating more accessible?” “How can we challenge the eating disorder without unnecessarily removing accommodations that help this person eat?” Because sometimes the goal isn’t to make an autistic person eat in the exact same way a neurotypical person does; The goal is to help them eat enough, nourish their body, and recover from the eating disorder in a way that works with their brain rather than constantly fighting against it. ❤️ Sometimes individualized treatment isn’t about making recovery easier. It’s about making recovery possible. 🧩❤️ #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #acceptance #MentalHealth

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instantlocsjamaica
Styled by R.I.E. Ltd :
The way you like to eat your sandwich is the traditional german way, its called Butterbrot or Stulle. its basically an open faced sandwich and is probably the most common breakfast ❤️I would choose a Butterbrot over a Sandwich anytime 😁
2026-08-10 00:53:29
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cici_xoxo
cecilie :
since you need your food to be open, then i highly recommend giving Smørrebrød a try in the future! not right now, but someday in the future cause i think you might like it!
2026-08-14 12:18:41
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monieelyse
monieelyse :
Sometimes individualized treatment isn’t about making recovery easier; It’s about making recovery possible. 🧩❤️
2026-08-10 00:02:55
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emilia__li
Emilia Li :
Coming from Europe, I grew up eating open sandwiches . Was surprised that majority of Sandwiches here in the US are closed. I get you girly, haha. 😊
2026-08-10 01:07:23
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andrea_doris82
andrea_doris82 :
I tooo had a very hard time making smoothies because I would mentally count all the calories and would get scared to drink it. We do recover. I suffered an exhausting 15+ years. When you are healed from it will feel so freeing. Sending you love you are beautiful
2026-08-10 03:59:35
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nikithebestest
Madre3000 :
So well written, explained and communicated! Every step you take to heal is amazing!
2026-08-12 00:25:01
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kim816693
Kim :
You've got this!!!! I'm here for you and supporting you all the way! ❤️❤️❤️
2026-08-10 00:53:10
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megc729
MegC729 :
I am so proud of you!!! Recovery should help someone nourish themselves and feel safer in their body, not require them to mask their needs to be considered “doing it right.” For an autistic person, recovery needs to be adapted, not made harder by forcing conformity! You are a rockstar miss ma’am and I love you!! 😘
2026-08-10 01:18:44
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c2370650
c :
Girl I am totally same. I make and cook for other but myself can’t eat it
2026-08-10 00:42:27
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elese521
Elese :
This makes so much sense for me. I’ve always been in conflict when told by dieticians/clinicians I need to have a more varied diet. I eat pretty much the same things daily (a few different foods in rotation). I also can’t mix textures and like things separated. If my food is hot, it has to be hot and will warm in microwave if it cools off. Cold things have to be really cold. My whole environment has to be calm and quiet, not in a rush and be alone. All these things are usually disregarded in treatment and increases my overall anxiety around food. I end up feeling like I’m being difficult and inflexible and often leads to my giving up and seeing my recovery as a failure. Your post helps me to recognize it’s important to understand what you need to feel safe and to work with those needs as opposed to fighting against them.
2026-08-10 03:04:03
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karma.batch7
karma.batch :
I'm not sure if other recovered creators is something that is a good thing to suggest, but your experience reminds me so much of Fiona Hollings. she was also dealing with autism and how it played into her ED. she is still doing well, last I checked. if this is a bad thing to do, please let me know and disregard my comment
2026-08-10 12:07:38
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ceportersr54
Charles :
You are an awesome person and a beautiful soul
2026-08-10 00:25:47
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justalwayslisa
Lisa :
sending you all the love and strength your heart can hold 🩷✨
2026-08-10 00:07:12
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ophiespov
ophiespov :
Bit of a side note but I love this format girl! 🫶
2026-08-10 03:01:12
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somethingdanishiykwim
Traddienotbaddie :
Here in Scandinavia (im from Denmark) we have Smørrebrød. i think that would be for you 🥰 clear overview over everything and so many possibilities to use as few or as many toppings as you like and can tolerate 🌸
2026-08-10 11:08:50
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beingdearra
BeingDearra | Mom Unfiltered :
At least you know most of your points I barely know any of mine besides, I either have to separate all my foods eat them one by one or if it’s something that could be mixed. I will mix it altogether to enjoy it, but if the foods can’t cross, they definitely will be eaten one section of food at a time😅 my mom always said she found it so weird since I was little, but also eating while watching TV is a big problem because mostly everyone does it and that leads to over eating a lot so at least you can focus on your eating in silence
2026-08-12 05:06:49
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itslilygonzalez
️Lily :
I love how aware you are off all of these you really have come a long way proud of you ❤️
2026-08-11 05:14:40
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sharnebelaali
Sharnè | ⵛⴰⵔⵏ 🇿🇦🇲🇦 :
Oh my I don’t know there were so many signs of autism. I’m so proud of you. You’re doing so amazing with everything
2026-08-10 01:45:37
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yosmiharvey
Yosmi Harvey :
I did not know about this, thank you for sharing and educating others! 💖🙏🏽
2026-08-11 22:25:20
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cosette.fauchelev
Cosette :
My autism is also very deeply intertwined within my ED. I've had one since I was 7 and I'm mostly recovered now but there are still patches where I desperately want to relapse. I just want to say that I am so proud of you, you are so beautiful and strong and I hope your recovery continues to go well. There's so much stigma around ED's and your account is really a safe space for so many people.
2026-08-16 01:35:09
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karenpeach195
Karen Peach :
I'm so sorry. It must be so hard.
2026-08-15 20:31:58
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bendysleepyautistic
niqi 🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🍉 :
I went through very similar detangling of behaviours when I finally got diagnosed with autism
2026-08-20 21:54:25
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akposter
akposter :
So I have a question that I’m formally curious about🙂 Have these things always been an issue, like since you were a child/can remember or have they increased as you’ve gotten older or at a certain time?
2026-08-13 12:22:58
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klcarrico
Karri :
Thank you for sharing that. Those are issues I guess I never thought about or realized. They make a lot of sense not just with Autism but other disorders as well. Nothing is ever really one issue or characteristic if we think about it. Learning to understand and respect what someone else is dealing with is so very important. It goes a long way towards giving support and understanding. I believe anyways. Sometimes just acceptance and a nonjudgemental attitude goes a long way.
2026-08-13 04:51:02
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jennysaephan
Jenny :
I did not know about this. Thanks for educating and being vulnerable with us 🥺🫶🏼
2026-08-10 04:22:59
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