talkswithshad
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sage💚 :
- main thing I told my ex was our disagreements weren’t two people trying to communicate and trying to understand each other, it was “I’m trying to understand and resolve the matter” and “you’re trying to prove why you’re right and I’m wrong”
2026-08-10 04:16:03
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B🤎 :
Ur videos are giving
2026-08-10 20:19:15
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Kiki❤️🧘🏽♀️ :
ATP I need to ft you about something 😭
2026-08-10 20:17:52
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Leyla :
Ok, so what if you’ve been with that person for two years and his ex texts him out of nowhere after them not speaking for those entire two years then one day she randomly text him and they only texted for not even a full two days , no calls either and he says the only reason why he left me was because she told him that she changed and she’s a better person now and that she wouldn’t show him that she changed if he didn’t leave me , so he left me and then literally 30 minutes later told me that it was a big mistake and WHEN he did leave me, I was crying and asking him to stay and I said do you really want to be with her and he said yes and that it was because he was thinking about “what if” and proceeded to leave anyway and then said that he still has feelings for her and then when two weeks went by and we re-spoke about the situation, he told me that he realized that it wasn’t feelings and that it felt good to know that she finally realized what she had lost because during the relationship she treated him bad and that when he made the decision to leave me at the time, that’s what he thought he wanted and said he realized it wasn’t feelings at all. I will never understand why her changing or progress in life even mattered so much to him smh. He was literally my best friend and now he’s telling me that we could make this work and it really doesn’t have to be this way so now I feel conflicted somebody please help!!!!
2026-08-10 08:21:19
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Nicole :
different communication
2026-08-10 18:42:52
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1 K :
You wanna pop up after ts been happening for 1 week
2026-08-10 08:21:23
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1northsidehottie.pt2 :
I love talks like this
2026-08-10 05:55:05
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SADIE’S LIFESTYLE :
You’re a month late my guy I was being blamed while trying to get them to understand, but they have a defensive act of withdrawing.
2026-08-10 08:53:14
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umiz.wrld 🌺 :
Also people want to communicate but without first making sure they are clear on what they would like to happen going into that conversation.
2026-08-10 16:43:40
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Chocl8Skin :
new follower
2026-08-10 17:56:43
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Sarah Boyles :
I gasped when I heard you say you’re getting your masters. You are a wise and articulate young man. I would have guessed you were working on a POST GRAD degree. You are going to bless the couples you counsel. I encourage you to continue on to teach others as well - mentor, professor, etc. All the things. I’m sharing your profile with everyone I know. You have a gift! 👏👏👏👏👏
2026-08-10 15:36:47
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Whosvernn!! :
Valuable info fr
2026-08-10 02:43:19
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D$ :
Fire shirt bro
2026-08-10 04:49:57
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KoachKam :
How do we book a session 💯
2026-08-10 14:46:56
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astoldbyzola :
…sigh smh relationships
2026-08-10 12:11:25
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JLee Da chosen KU :
Interestingly put 💯
2026-08-10 04:31:52
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B🤎 :
Can we be friends ?🥺
2026-08-10 20:19:02
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Nicole :
maybe the tone
2026-08-10 18:43:20
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younglawd🇯🇲 :
this is so true
2026-08-10 06:40:28
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dezz🍒 :
fyp brought me backkk
2026-08-10 06:51:51
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StayKozy🌩🍊 :
Realll
2026-08-10 03:09:33
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Nicole :
I don't listen at times
2026-08-10 18:44:16
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BeccaLove3001 :
you need to start with families like parents and children adult children. because it always repeats
2026-08-10 08:36:39
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🏈TAE🏈 :
This! You have to be slow to speak and quick to listen in order to regulate in the moment and understand that you are safe, the information train is just off the tracks. If not, then this is when the initiator becomes emotionally responsible for the impact their questions/statements have made and the intention is now lost because the other person is now hurt. Regulation is key for both parties but they have to both agree to slow down and talk through the repair & or how to best maneuver future situations for both parties.
2026-08-10 19:17:56
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abreya🦦 :
@????
2026-08-10 10:04:28
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