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Eunice :

I honestly don’t know how to explain everything I’m feeling right now because it feels like there are so many emotions happening at the same time. There was a guy before who I used to talk to. We were never officially in a relationship, but we became close, and he showed me a lot of effort and care. He made me feel appreciated and valued, and I became comfortable having him in my life. However, I eventually realized that I wasn’t ready to enter a relationship with him, so I decided to end whatever was developing between us. I explained my reasons clearly because I didn’t want him to think that I was leaving because I had someone else or because I didn’t care about him anymore. I simply wasn’t ready, and I wanted to be honest with him rather than continue something when I knew I couldn’t give it the commitment it deserved. He told me that he understood, and I thought that even though we had ended that part of our connection, we could still remain close and continue talking as friends. Before we completely lost our connection, I even told him that I didn’t want him to avoid me because I still wanted us to be comfortable around each other. I wanted us to continue talking, joking, and being friends even if there was no longer anything romantic between us. That was important to me because I didn’t want to lose someone who had once been an important part of my life. But after only about a week, I found out that he was already talking to someone new. I learned about it from someone who is both his friend and my friend, and honestly, finding that out hurt me more than I expected. I know that technically he was free to talk to someone else because we were not in a relationship anymore, and I know that I was the one who chose to end what we had. Still, I couldn’t stop myself from feeling hurt and disappointed. Maybe part of me was hoping that even though I wasn’t ready for a relationship, he would still somehow stay close to me. When I found out that he already had someone new, it made me feel like the closeness we had disappeared much faster than I expected. I still care, but I’m learning that caring doesn’t mean crossing my own boundaries.

C :

mahal kita to the point that sometimes i choose to ignore the pain even when it’s already hurting me deeply, because losing you feels heavier than anything i’m going through. i know you don’t want me to drain myself for you, i know you’ve said that before, but i can’t help it because this is how much i love you. when you love someone this deeply, you tend to give more than you should, even when it starts to hurt, even when it slowly takes pieces of you away. i’m willing to sacrifice everything for you, even if it hurts, even if it becomes too much, even if there are days when i feel like i’m slowly losing parts of myself, as long as you’re happy and you feel that someone is still choosing to stay with you no matter what. i don’t want to be a burden to you, that’s why most of the time i choose to keep everything to myself even when what i’m feeling is already too heavy. i’m scared that if i open up too much, it might push you away or turn into another misunderstanding, and i don’t want that. so i stay quiet, not because i don’t feel anything, but because i’m trying to protect what we have. i love you so much, and with you, i felt things i never thought i would ever feel in my life, a kind of love that was so pure, so deep, and so real that it changed me completely. but at the same time, you’re also the person who made me feel a kind of pain i never imagined i would go through, and that kind of pain hits differently because it came from the same person who once made me feel so safe and loved. i just hope that when you’re having a hard time, you would still look at me the way you used to, the way you used to see me before, like i still matter, like i’m still someone you choose even when things aren’t easy. i’m not asking for everything to go back to how it was before, i just want to feel your love again, even in the smallest ways, even just a little, even if it’s not the same as before, just enough to remind me that what we have is still real. and please don’t ever think that i stayed because i had no choice, because that’s not true. i’m staying because i’m sure about you. never pumasok sa utak ko na bumitaw sa anong meron tayo. kaya sana mag stay ka lang maha

Jo :

To my girl best friend, whom I've loved for five years and still love to this day, I just want you to know that I'm sorry I never had the chance to tell you how I truly feel because I was afraid that it would ruin our relationship as best friends. I loved you from the very first day I met you, and even after all these years, my feelings for you are still here. But it turns out that you would eventually leave me too and stop talking to me. Even so, I'm still sorry if I ever did something that hurt you or said something I shouldn't have. I just want you to know that I love you so much, and I don't think that feeling will simply disappear. I'll still be here, waiting, and I'll always be willing to talk to you again, listen to your problems, be there for you, and be someone you can lean on. I just hope that someday, you'll still remember me, or at least remember the years and memories we shared together. Even if you find someone else to love, I hope you'll still remember me and everything we went through together as best friends.

Samantha💫 :

to my Mr.avoidant, I know it's hard to be avoidant, but if we really love each other, we won't allow ourselves to be avoidant. Yes, I love you, not in words, but in deeds. I love you so much, my Mr. Avoidant. I hope you understand me, even if it's just for once, because I'm going through something too, and I hope you understand my sides too. yeah There is also avoidant behavior but I don't use it because I don't want to hurt you because I love you so much. Sometimes I tell myself that once I lose you, I will never love again. iloveyouu po... 💞

shiro :

To my avoidant baby, I won’t beg this time. Not because I stopped caring, but because I’m starting to understand that love shouldn’t feel like I have to keep proving I’m worth staying for. I see you. Even in your silence. I notice how you disappear when things get overwhelming, how you choose distance over confrontation. And I’ve tried, I really did, to meet you where you are without losing myself in the process. But loving you quietly has been the loudest pain I’ve ever felt. I kept telling myself na “intindihin mo s’ya, gan’to lang talaga siya” while slowly, ako naman yung nauubos. I stayed patient, I stayed soft, even when I felt ignored, even when I felt like I was the only one holding on. And maybe you’ll never fully realize how much I chose you in moments where it would’ve been easier to walk away. I don’t hate you. I don’t blame you. But I’m finally accepting that I can’t be the only one fighting for something that’s supposed to be ours. If you ever come across this, I hope you understand that I didn’t leave because I stopped loving you. I stepped back because I had to start choosing myself too. And if one day you learn how to stay, I hope you remember someone once loved you this gently, this patiently, this real. But for now, I’m letting go of the version of you that only exists when it’s convenient. Still soft, just not losing myself anymore

𝙇𝙀𝙑𝙄 𝘼𝙍𝘾🧬 :

kanino naba?

gell :

daming essay ah

riered. :

I courted her ’cuz I thought it would change what we already have. I'm aware that she's an avoidant. I thought I could change that, I thought if I loved her deeply, let her feel special every time, understand her, and drain myself for her, I thought it would be enough. But it wasn't, she's still the same. she always says that she loves me, that she cares for me. But her actions speak differently. Does loving her more lead to loving me less?! Should I stop, and choose myself? Should I choose my sanity over her feelings?

lanadelgrey :

puro ganito nadaan sa fyp ko ah, is this a sign na may iba na siya??? 🫠

SAB :

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bakit moo kabosess arghh, anww gandaa ng boses mo kuya •^•

nicsii :

Please overcome your avoidant attachment first before you love someone or enter a relationship. Hindi kasi sapat na mahal mo ang isang tao kung sa tuwing nagiging vulnerable, uncomfortable, or emotionally overwhelmed ka, ang instinct mo ay lumayo, manahimik, or push them away. A relationship requires communication, consistency, and the willingness to stay even when things get difficult. Hindi mo kailangang maging completely healed bago magmahal, pero kailangan mong maging aware sa sarili mong patterns and willing kang ayusin ang mga ito. Kasi kapag hindi mo pa kayang harapin yung sarili mong fears, insecurities, and emotions, baka hindi mo sinasadyang masaktan yung taong genuinely trying to love and understand you. Love shouldn't feel like constantly chasing someone who keeps running away. Before asking someone to stay, learn how to stay—not only when everything feels easy, but especially when things become uncomfortable.

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to my avoidant baby, I won’t beg this time. not because I stopped caring, but because I’m starting to understand that love shouldn’t feel like I have to keep proving I’m worth staying for. I see you. even in your silence. I notice how you disappear when things get overwhelming, how you choose distance over confrontation. and I’ve tried, I really did, to meet you where you are without losing myself in the process. but loving you quietly has been the loudest pain I’ve ever felt. I kept telling myself na “intindihin mo s’ya, gan’to lang talaga siya” while slowly, ako naman yung nauubos. I stayed patient, I stayed soft, even when I felt ignored, even when I felt like I was the only one holding on. and maybe you’ll never fully realize how much I chose you in moments where it would’ve been easier to walk away. I don’t hate you. I don’t blame you. but I’m finally accepting that I can’t be the only one fighting for something that’s supposed to be ours. If you ever come across this, I hope you understand that I didn’t leave because I stopped loving you. I stepped back because I had to start choosing myself too. and if one day you learn how to stay, I hope you remember someone once loved you this gently, this patiently, this real. but for now, I’m letting go of the version of you that only exists when it’s convenient. still soft, just not losing myself anymore.

saoirse :

I wasn't mad at you. Gusto ko lang malaman kung bakit. Bakit mo nagawa ’yon? Bakit nag bago isip mo? Bakit biglaan mo ’kong iniwanan? Bakit ka nag bago? Bakit hindi mo nilinaw? Ang daming "bakit" sa utak ko. Kahit na, we ended our relationship with any arguments and cheating involved. We ended our relationship with questions and without answers. No clarification nor explanation for me to understand our situation more. You just broke up with me on a random day in April. I'll admit, I was expecting that you'll do that. Napapansin ko na nag babago ka. All these little things, napapansin ko na nababago. I'll question myself, "Hindi naman s’ya ganito ah?" Pero I didn't say anything to keep you with me. Kask ayokong mawawala ka sa ’kin. And at the moment I noticed that you're changing slowly, I was assuming na na you will leave me. So, sinulit ko na yung mga time na I was able to talk to you pa. 04 - 29 - 26. The day you finally gave up and chose what's best for us. I tried begging you to come back but I ended up realizing that hindi worth it kung babalik lang s’ya sa ’kin dahil lang naawa s’ya o di kaya nag beg ako. We are now following our own directions in life. Please take care of yourself. I don't love you anymore.

mamamo :

10× top 1 global ruby

Sham :

we’ve only known for 2 months but i already fcking loved you. lahat ng bagay na gusto ko sa tao nasasayu ambait mo antalino mo tas di moko jinujudge for the first time in a long time i felt this kind of love tinry ko pa talaga ipagsiksikan sarili ko sayu, i’ve tried my best pero di naman kita masisi mahal mo talaga siya eh but yk kahit ginanon moko im still here for you i loved you so much pre i know sabi mo pa sakin hanggang friends lang talaga tayo. tanggap ko naman yun but yung gawin nyu kong tanga sa di pag sabi na nagbalikan na pala kayo, yun yung masakit pre, naging tanga pa ako. alam mo naman pre how much i love you pinagtatanggol pa kita sakanila pag may sinasabi silang mga hindi magagandang bagay sayo, basta pre im always here for you. i know i need to distance myself from you kasi respeto narin sa jowa mo ngayun basta pre i love you so much and im always here for you ah remember that.

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kanino na?

gelo. :

kanino na?

rie :

sino next?

:p :

why do i suddenly miss what we had? why do i suddenly miss your voice? those sweet good mornings and goodnights? nakaka-miss rin palang maging sa’yo. why is it so hard to move on from you? why am i the one who grieves even though I’m the one who got hurt? there might be really something special about you. i can’t reach out to you, kasi alam kong you’re already pursuing someone, and honestly, it hurts me seeing what you do for her that I’ve once dreamed of for you to do for me when we were still together. I kept questioning myself about my worth—am I really that worth it? Kaya mo naman palang gawin sa iba, but why is it so hard when it comes to me? I just don’t understand. Remember the time I begged for you to not hurt me again? The time I begged you to not leave me? Bakit sa mga times na ‘yon, hinayaan mo ako? and the audacity for you to say na wala ako the time you were down, did u even care that time? you didn’t even bother to find me, to check where am i. it hurts me a lot when you said that, kase I know to myself that I was there always; you may not see my face, my body, or my presence, but it was there, and you didn’t know that because, of course, you don’t care. and I’m so thankful and amazed by how love works—because love chooses to end us both because love knows that both of us are hurting, and our relationship would never work. love sees how we both struggles in understanding each other. love sees that you chose silence over communication, leading us into something we wouldn’t want. please know that I am healing little by little, and that I have no intentions of coming back. I hope you’re doing well, and may God bless you more than you deserve :))