bell hooks talks about this in her book Communion: The female search for love. Especially, for heterosexual ciswomen have a hard time letting go of patriarchy because it would require them to let go of their relationship with men and the acknowledgment of how they’ve been complicit. Letting go of patriarchy for me is taking responsibility for yourself.
2026-08-11 02:08:37
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Gigi :
The proof is in the pudding, all the shade!
2026-08-10 14:12:43
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Coach Ah-hava 🧿🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩 :
Love you, too. Appreciate the nuance, the empathy, and the Black Queerness. 🕯🤍😘🌈
2026-08-12 20:38:26
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Sep.ngu :
Patriarchal systems and environments definitely do incentivize and condition bigotry which is a shame because I think there are many communities / allies that would stand up for women’s rights. I think toxic masculinity and just comfortability of shaming femininity in males is kind of just rampant in our society as well.
2026-08-11 06:09:37
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beyoncearne :
It is the truth.
2026-08-10 23:30:32
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Chiemena :
All ties back to toxic masculinity
2026-08-10 18:42:24
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TiffanyReeseNyc23 :
They’re gonna hate you
2026-08-11 01:11:45
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party girl :
so true my ex husband!!🤬
2026-08-10 20:22:36
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Infinamz :
I watch your original unsuccessful woman video several times a year, I wanna keep it drilled in my brain to avoid failure 😂
2026-08-10 20:53:46
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Afro Punk Princess 👑 :
You never lie. 💯
2026-08-10 23:05:57
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SmallsIsSmall :
Hear! Hear! I love the nuance of this take!
2026-08-10 16:06:49
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Kenya Doll :
YES!
2026-08-10 15:51:10
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jess.journeying :
Weeelllll
2026-08-10 15:13:32
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NicoKats :
Fantastic take
2026-08-10 14:52:21
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R a c h e l :
Preach!
2026-08-10 14:24:55
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Jen🧡🤍🩷 :
Yes! They’re looking at themselves through those systems and playing into the game
2026-08-13 02:20:29
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Rima | weight loss for psychos :
this hook is hilarious 🤣
2026-08-15 21:51:09
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Lauren :
You’re smart and iconic and correct
2026-08-18 00:35:49
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Gia :
very well said
2026-08-12 20:47:32
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GabyP.2399 :
hahahaha ....it's sooo true
2026-08-12 01:39:57
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GS Print Shoppe🪩💖💅🏼 :
Amen. Amen.
2026-08-10 15:02:04
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