𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐮𝐬
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_realestatequeen_ :
What a diplomatic way to say men aren’t bringing enough to the table when money is taken out of the equation
2026-08-11 16:11:40
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Lauren ✌🏻 :
I would say men need to catch up emotionally to be where women got to economically.
2026-08-10 22:20:58
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Monday❌ :
I think you’re missing a major piece. When women can financially take care of ourselves, it doesn’t mean we suddenly want a man who makes substantially more. It means money is no longer enough to make us accept an unequal relationship. If we already have financial security, a home, and peace, we’re not looking to work, raise children, carry the mental load, manage the home, and then mother another adult. We want emotional maturity, presence, communication, shared responsibility, and genuine partnership. The better question isn’t, “Why do successful women only want the top 15% of men?” It’s: “Now that women don’t need men for financial survival, what do they need from a relationship?” For many of us, the answer isn’t more money. It’s a man whose presence makes our lives better, not our workload bigger.
2026-08-11 19:18:56
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Danielle :
women: "WE WANT LOVE, RESPECT, AND EMOTIONAL MATURITY!" men: "they don't want us because we're not rich." 😒🤦♀️
2026-08-11 10:48:00
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Lucyposhaheidi :
Women don’t need money from men anymore (because we make our own) so we are looking for other characteristics that are desirable in a partners like empathy, humility, humor, kindness, loyalty, etc. Not all men but a lot of men severely lack all of this. So we chose to be alone.
2026-08-11 12:26:15
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Meghan Kramer :
Men should listen to this and hear: If you find a high value woman, figure out how to make her life better. If she doesn’t need you financially, figure out what the hard shit she has to deal with, the shit that stresses her out, and ease that burden. THAT makes you invaluable to a high value woman, THAT is what women want in a partner
2026-08-11 10:19:21
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ThatTiktokMom :
The words he uses “give women more money” I think he means “earn more money”- it’s frustrating. No one is giving women anything they are working their asses off and earning it themselves.
2026-08-10 23:56:25
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Shoko Nini :
Men need to bring good character to the table now.
2026-08-10 22:31:28
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Ashley madewell :
Very interesting. Think you are off on those salaries though
2026-08-12 14:16:09
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angelaverdana :
this is red pill content disguised as reason
2026-08-12 00:39:32
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Claire :
😁 Patriarchy is dying dude . The whole system is shifting. Enough is enough.
2026-08-10 21:10:21
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annaleighla :
I can’t even tell you how many women I know who are involved with men who make their lives worse. Not better. Financially, emotionally, you name it.
2026-08-10 22:55:02
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Renee :
why is it so hard for men to just respect women as humans?
2026-08-11 03:05:31
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edda :
what kind of redpill is this? today men look for female sponsor. honestly, I don't know what you dudes are talking about 😳🙄
2026-08-12 12:49:26
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username123451241234212 :
So my take away from this is that all factors removed, men want offspring more than women do? And is it possibly because after conception and birth of children, women’s lives change ( not necessarily for better) drastically more than men’s? I am referring to increased domestic labor, mental load.etc… in that case society should abolish the notion of gender roles and men should do at least 50% of all domestic labor including the mental load. Actually, that 50% should increase to 70or 80% to compensate women for pregnancy discomfort
2026-08-12 12:45:19
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MizzMamaJane :
There's SO much more to it than that.
2026-08-12 12:36:10
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lifegotmemeditating :
I feel so seen. 🙏🏽
2026-08-11 12:59:05
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akia.kim3 :
Spot on!!!
2026-08-12 05:50:17
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OneofUsCannotBeWrong 🇨🇦 :
It’s not money, it’s men.
2026-08-12 12:07:25
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✨Tabitha🪲 :
Men need to raise their emotional intelligence now.
2026-08-11 13:04:29
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carapeytin :
men make money and think "now I can start a family" not "now I can take care of a family" they don't have the burden of the household work so there's no downside to them. the answer is better sharing of domestic responsibilities
2026-08-11 11:00:02
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Prof Sully: Community College :
Umm, maybe men could elevate in their communication, emotive, nurturing, or social skills. Money isn't the only thing that enhances women's lives.
2026-08-11 08:55:41
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missveeadvice :
[Historically] . Woman needs economic security → man provides economic security → his income compensates for his weaknesses in other areas. . [Insert Economic Darwinism] . Woman can provide her own economic security → money alone becomes less persuasive → men are increasingly evaluated on what ELSE they contribute.
2026-08-12 06:36:56
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Crepe :
so those men who can no longer financially reciprocate should improve their other facets. Be kinder, be romantic, help in the household with chores, cooking and children. Instead you’ve got these men earning less and demanding that their high earning woman do all of the household duties. So what do they bring to the table? How is living with them better than being single? To me the problem is economics but also men failing to rise to the challenge
2026-08-11 11:32:50
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Melissa G Tuckabee :
His perspective is so patriarchal and incorrect still… Yes, it’s the economy, but most women are willing to pair with a man who does not make more than them if he is a good person.
2026-08-12 01:41:01
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