Great post ...going through this right now
I really appreciate your post!
Oahu it is 😁
2026-08-16 16:02:54
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Megasaurus :
I broke up with my avoidantly attached guy back in May (just over 3 months ago), but I've stayed in contact with his mother the whole because we got very close and became really good friends. This weekend she let me know that my ex almost died this past weekend and is fighting for his life right now. I have done a lot of work on healing from the relationship and the break up, but a part of me still loves him and it is taking everything in me not to reach out to him... 😭 I had a dream that he called me from the hospital last night then tried to leave the hospital and died. I am not okay right now. I've also been seeing visions of me at his funeral for a couple of weeks now. I'm freaked out rn.
sorry about dumping this all on you, I just really needed to vent 🥺
2026-08-10 21:51:57
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Jimbo*** :
When you change your mindset from sorrow to thankfulness the world around u changes
2026-08-11 03:05:49
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junie :
So was your intuition right? Did he come back?
2026-08-10 16:45:59
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𝔅𝔢𝔢 𝔉𝔢𝔪𝔪𝔢 :
Everything happens for a reason 🤍✨
2026-08-11 04:57:12
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lenya.tz :
but it hurts so bad he moved on just a day after he broke up with me and follows new girls. He reposts tik tok about that he doesnt care. he was such an sweet loving boy, why does he do that ?
2026-08-11 05:46:37
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Paul Spencer :
I can’t wait to get to the place where you are 💔
2026-08-10 18:38:18
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htravels83 :
love this.. i evolved so much since then.. walked away with my head held high.. found someone hotter, better😉💪
2026-08-11 04:49:27
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Miguel Jaggassar :
Going through a divorce is where I'm suppose to be?
2026-08-11 10:02:07
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Scott :
so so true
2026-08-10 19:04:59
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Krad1e :
I am going thru this rn. I am solo traveling to Thailand next month :) wish me luck.
2026-08-12 03:08:33
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jas101wix :
I broke up my avoidant ex in January for no reason, it was heartbreaking, I met her on a night out 6 months later and the pain is excruciating and I can't move on
2026-08-13 00:03:03
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Lile 😝 :
this is so helpful haha, i literally lost someone very important to me a week ago because he realized he wasn’t ready for a relationship. at first in my head, i was thinking “right person wrong time, things will be fine, we’ll be back”, but now im trying to accustom my mind to a possible permanent life without him :(
2026-08-11 07:50:08
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user :
Can you talk about if he did come back or did you find someone else? How did that happen for you? Like when did you accept he’s not coming back and you have to become open to finding someone else and how did u become attracted to someone new if you’re still hoping for him to come back? I feel hopeless right now
2026-08-10 18:32:26
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TangoEchoMikeOscar :
Thank you 🙏🏽
2026-08-10 19:17:33
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FRAZart :
Have you seen the new Spiderman? What were your thoughts about it based off his relationship with MJ?
2026-08-10 18:36:08
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Veles :
Yeah Natalie, not all of us have money to travel the world, as a matter of fact some are struggling to live.
2026-08-11 08:56:18
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The Nancy Pattern :
I really needed this. thank you ❤️
2026-08-10 17:22:32
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Roberto Coral ⭐️ :
Everything you said is all true, and yes its exausting. But something even more exausting is something ur aware of buy not fully fully conscious of is that theres always ups and downs no matter what, and this is the most exausting part of life
2026-08-10 19:43:49
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valeria.serjodkina :
I started to let go of the idea that “he will come back” and I suddenly started to be more creative and post more frequently on TikTok. Feels like this had to happen.
2026-08-11 10:27:05
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Kae :
I got an interview for my dream job the day after he broke up with me, literally it was supposed to happen
2026-08-12 04:04:36
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Maison_YB :
Did he ever come back? did you guys get back together?
2026-08-13 12:04:29
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Pink Hand Retreat :
Where did you travel to first I’m invested in this travel idea
2026-08-18 01:15:11
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