The minute they can’t give me as much attention or are busy I immediately “kill them” in my head. I put them in a box and seal it. It’s like ok well I’m done with them. Even though they were just busy or having a bad day. It feels like abandonment so I leave them before they leave me. I want them to notice so they come chasing after me. It’s such a weird feeling and it’s so hard to explain. “They don’t exist to me anymore” or “I knew they would do this to me”
2026-08-10 20:55:33
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James the Elder :
Favorite Person is one of my biggest struggles.
2026-08-10 18:25:10
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Nicki Allen :
If my friend has idealized me, and is currently in a devaluation of me, is it healthier to give space, or to stay consistent?
She hasn't asked for space, nor has she been unkind to me.
2026-08-11 22:42:57
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🌸 :
isn't it coping mechanism for narcissistic personality.
2026-08-10 17:06:23
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🦇Lee-arn-dra🪩 :
also in cptsd
2026-08-12 11:20:01
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alwaysandforever_2025 :
This makes absolute sense and it hurts
2026-08-21 06:58:15
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feeling_the_feels :
i have bp2 but i do this. it sucks and hurts. ive tried to get over this. the "split" hasn't happened with this one yet. i still fawn but i need to not care.
2026-08-11 19:04:52
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Rach 🏳️🌈🇦🇺 :
me
2026-08-13 23:00:50
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linzi771 :
Bpd is horrible..it’s tourture 24/7.but people esp on here (tic tok) run around acting like a fool.a people label all bpd as the way these ones get on!which is wrong the people I’ve seen on here ripping the pissss out of it!!we’re not all like this a lot of us just want to be heard/supported
2026-08-12 17:46:56
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