@jodiiimichelle: “It is not necessary to prove that sex is inherently good. It is not. For some, it is never good and never wanted, no matter how seemingly ideal the circumstance or how caring the partner. Mixed experiences, mixed layers of agency, and mixed attitudes toward sex all exist, and honoring these is more important than clinging to the idea sex is by default nice, or that there always exist conditions under which it can be wonderful.” — Angela Chen in her book ‘Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex’… HIGHLY recommend! #ace #asexual #asexuality

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lokisclitoris
lokisclitoris 161 :
Bungee jumping is actually a fun activity also! When done safely and willingly…. unless of course you’re scared, in pain, panicking, problems with height, not interested, got better things to do….. 😐
2026-08-10 17:53:07
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jodiiimichelle
Jodi :
Like imagine if I made a video about having no interest in…. uh, idk rock climbing… and someone commented “rock climbing is an actually fun activity when done meaningfully and with care!” Ok?!? Your point?? I’m afraid of heights & it doesn’t appeal to me anyway, bud. YOU have fun.
2026-08-10 17:54:04
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sarahluannart
Sarah LuAnn Art :
All of this, but also, consent is only a meaningful concept if saying no always to everyone forever is considered a valid choice. Until it is our society will always struggle with true consent.
2026-08-11 01:13:21
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denverbecca
Becca :
I’ve had sex. It was horrible. I can’t even watch sex scenes in movies or tv. I’m very sex adverse. To me, there is nothing fun about it. I’d rather have dinner and a good conversation with someone.
2026-08-10 21:49:53
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tygersongbird
Tyger Songbird :
It's so weird how some people are so hellbent on forcing everyone to have sex and like it. It's like they're affronted by people who just don't care for it. It is severely weird. We allow for differences on everything else, like what your favorite sports team is. Yet, when I tell people I'm sex-repulsed, they just treat it as if it's something I have to get over, because sex is an obligation. In all honesty, they're not helping their case with trying to make me have sex. They're creeping me out more.
2026-08-11 23:10:30
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charlot00019
🖤🩶Charlot00019🤍💜 :
I’m so tired of telling people my sexuality because of their comments about it. It’s so exhausting. Like why can’t I just have a partnership without sex that’s just as meaningful as a partnership with it? Why can’t people just understand that not everyone will like the same thing? 😕
2026-08-10 17:57:39
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pulsarpoltergeistparadox
pulsarpoltergeistparadox :
Pizza with pineapple is actually really good… if you like pineapple on pizza! If you don’t like sex for whatever reason (you just don’t or you’re sex averse) it’s not gonna be a “fun activity”. Just like if you don’t like how pineapple pares with tomato sauce, you’re not gonna like it on pizza.
2026-08-11 16:11:13
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lulurobson619
lulurobson619 :
its like comparing sex to sky, cave, sea diving which are dangerous activities but thrilling when done right like okay and???? Still isn't for everyone!
2026-08-24 22:37:42
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_v3nny_
V3nny :
Im sex adverse and sex repulsed and I physically can't watch sex scenes in shows or media or else it makes me have anxiety and makes me feel so uncomfortable. I also cried in sex education in school and my parents wouldn't take me out of it and if I were to be taken out I would have to write essays everyday instead. I hate that I couldn't not do it bc there was no way I could write essays everyday on top of all the high end classes I was taking. My parents always tell me I'll change my mind or I haven't found the right person or that "its smth you do when you really love someone." Why can't I love someone without having sex with them? I've seen so many videos saying that if you don't have sex you should just stay friends because "what kind of a relationship is that?" I feel so unlovable sometimes in a world that treats sex like the best thing in the world
2026-08-11 22:07:30
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arospace_
arospace_ :
exactly. I am someone who is asexual and sex-positive towards my fiancée, it's certainly fun for me, but it sure isn't for everyone. I think a good analogy would be with sex being chocolate, other sweets (like gummies) being romance and salty chips being self-fulfilling stuff like career or a hobby. like just because you love chocolate, and actually the majority of population likes chocolate to a bigger or smaller extent, there are still people who are either allergic, dislike sweets in general or just don't like chocolate specifically but love gummies or salty snacks. while many people love both gummies and chocolate and many buy them in combo promotional packets while going for a sleepover with a cool person, some only want to eat one of those by the TV, and some would rather haul over a ton of chip bags and eat it alone instead of eating sweet stuff with someone else. there are people who love chocolate, gummies and chips equally and eat them all in a similar amount. there are people who prefer more of this snack and less of that snack in their life, so they invest slightly more or less money into buying them. there are people who don't like eating chocolate at all. some don't like eating gummies at all. some don't like either of those. some people prefer munching on sweets rather than on salty snacks, while other people prefer salty stuff over sweet stuff. a person with a hoard of chips can be just as happy as someone with a hoard of gummies and chocolate. and a person with their gummy bears stash can be very much fulfilled without having to add a chocolate drawer to their desk. so to summarize it; if you love chocolate, that's great. many people in the world love different kinds of chocolate and you can share your love for it with them. but just because you like eating chocolate, that doesn't mean everyone has to like it. people have different needs, tastes, preferences and priorities. you're not the universal human blueprint that everyone else is just a copy of. so don't approach someone enjoying their gummy mix and try to convince them chocolate is better, they just need to find their brand. no. not everyone likes the same things you do and that's okay❤️
2026-08-10 18:59:54
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byakushisakura
Byakushisakura🇨🇦🏳️‍⚧️ :
I’ll never understand why it’s the one thing people aren’t allowed to dislike. It’s not like I try to avoid sex, I just don’t do it 🤣 it’s taken zero effort on my part.
2026-08-11 22:21:22
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sparrowrowrowyourboat
Sparrow🐢 :
It’s so boring even with someone who wants you to enjoy yourself
2026-08-12 11:53:09
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sam521683
sam🩷💛🩵 :
like why are you this invested that others have smex? what does that have to do with you
2026-08-15 14:24:51
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jpennerauthor
jpenner | cozy fantasy books :
Why is this one of the areas in life that for some reason everyone has to have the same opinion on? I love chocolate, my daughter isn’t a fan at all… imagine going around and telling everyone that dislikes chocolate that they really do love it??!!!
2026-08-11 14:46:53
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pursuer.of.self.d
Pursuer of Self Discovery :
the amount of people that have told me this when I try to explain how I am sexually! it's so invalidating! thank you for this video.
2026-08-10 17:54:18
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ellmerryspinster
ellmerryspinster ♠️🤍💜 :
Peak quote in caption!
2026-08-10 22:04:04
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justcallmecabby
justcallmecabby :
See with a comment made like this I would just respond with I don’t give a shit lol just like everything in life or mostly sex is an option not a requirement
2026-08-11 17:37:39
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alicestarlightf
Alice ♿ 🏳️‍⚧️ :
I've done it a few times and tbh I'd rather not again. also, being trans and on hrt really killed off anything down there and I'm so happy it did
2026-08-11 06:29:20
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piccionegrasso
Fagiolo rosa :
once when I was 13, an old lady who was in our group travelling with us told me that when that when I grew up I would like it😖 disgusting...all because for who was interested there was a museum about little statues of genitals, and of course I wasn't interested, she went, and then I don't remember what we were talking about and then she came up with this. then when she walked away I almost cried cus I was angry and disgusted by her taking for granted something like this. At least the tour guide comforted me
2026-08-14 09:22:11
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ironic_ant
Ironic Ant :
I mean, the physical sensations were nice, but I wouldn’t say I ever found it fun. Really I can take it or leave it 🤷
2026-08-22 07:20:52
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