Dusty Thunder
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Klassina :
I’m at the very beginning. I’m wondering if op and hubby being “too different” is code for they are not the same race. Future me, was I right?
2026-08-10 19:44:26
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NatVaz422 🏳️🌈 :
NTA. If OP is so terrible for not housing her, then so are the rest of the family for not offering.
2026-08-10 19:20:38
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Shikåmiri :
Makes me wonder if the hubby issue is the result of the mother problem. Seems both she and her hubby are having to keep a LOT to themselves and not be able to release because mother is always there. Get rid of Mum, marriage will most likely be a good one again
2026-08-11 07:49:51
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It’s Blair :
Honestly, I would’ve not only kicked mom out, but also put out a message in a group chat like “Just to clarify, I am kicking my mother out of my home for inciting arguments. She is the catalyst destroying my marriage. Any of you are welcome to take her in, but I will not allow someone continually spreading lies and drama in my household.” And anyone who pushes back, well, they get mom now
2026-08-10 19:51:06
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Traveling_Smoker_BBQ :
took 2 years?
2026-08-18 22:04:54
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🐾Joscelyn🐾 :
My mom stayed with me for 3 months once for my back surgery. Threw a huge tantrum because I didn’t cook dinner for her one night and refused to eat all together like I starved her. Vowed to never come back to my house again and hasn’t. Some moms can not be pleased. 🙄🙄🙄
2026-08-10 19:32:43
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Chuck84 :
1000% NTA. Mom has crossed way too many lines.
2026-08-10 19:26:54
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Meg The First :
Oh, she is under YOUR roof? NTA. Bit the hand, tough nuggets.
2026-08-10 19:16:32
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authorj.dorden :
even if she was going to a shelter so what, you dont bite the hand that is feeding you
2026-08-17 00:11:04
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amandagerman1017 :
It says a lot about mom and her behavior that nobody else will take her in either. I would bet money that she has burned her bridges with other family members as well, which makes it even worse that they would judge op for kicking her out
2026-08-11 03:06:16
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sunshinedremama :
They don't want her in a shelter they can take her
2026-08-10 19:15:57
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Khrysthal :
Is she’s an a**hole for asking her to leave, there’re bigger a**holes for not allowing her in their homes!
2026-08-18 15:49:08
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Aussicana :
The brother is not talking to OP because he doesn’t want her to tell him it’s his turn to have mom living with him.
2026-08-16 02:24:09
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natashablackwolf :
Shes not going to a shelter come on. Its just manipulation.
2026-08-11 04:04:10
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RitaAZ58 :
Throw her out let her live with your brother
2026-08-18 03:40:07
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Cara 📚🖋️💄🇨🇦 :
My sister in law and husband are having conversations about their mom right now. Sister in law has an empty basement suite and we have a spare room we use as my home office since I work from home. Guess where everyone thinks MIL should live???
2026-08-18 00:58:38
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Carroll :
Nope. She would be gone. If they feel bad for her, they can take her in. Those family members would also be out of my life because I’m not going to have them talking about me.
2026-08-18 21:05:00
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ReadIt Right :
100% NTA cz Mom has crossed way too many lines, of course
2026-08-17 10:48:25
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PandoraLockhart :
nta. her saying that she's looking into homeless shelters is a manipulation too. She hasn't had to pay into this house for 2 years? Where's her money been going? does she not have an income or something? I would also just drop her off at a family member's house and tell them that if they like enabling her so much they can have her
2026-08-10 21:44:43
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Kelly Spence :
She is destroying your peaceful family. I’m sorry she’s got to go. Nta
2026-08-10 20:12:56
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deblovesdav :
Mom isn’t happy, family is not happy, and you are not happy. Tell mom that the brother wants her to live with him. Pack up all her stuff and drop her off at the front door and don’t look back. I guarantee within the month your brother will be complaining about the same things you have endured for two years. When he calls you and says that he didn’t offer to take her in, tell him he was saying you weren’t doing a good enough job and he chose to believe mom over you. Of course you assumed that he was going to take over. Block his number and live your life.
2026-08-10 21:39:50
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larissab415 :
If her brother truly believed she was in an abusive relationship not speaking to her is not correct response. If he truly cared about her he would still talk to her and have a relationship with her so that if she left her husband she would have an ally ànd safe space. That no one wants to help her mother particularly her son shows that they know what kind of person her mom is.
2026-08-10 22:46:58
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Leanka :
Hope she dropped her mum at her brother's place with her bags.
2026-08-10 21:15:00
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Suyari :
Looking at homeless shelters is performative. She's not looking at them as valid options, but to further victimize herself, villainize OP, further disharmonize the family & build shame and guilt, weaponizing emotion & filial duty into her preferred outcome. Stay strong, OP. Stand firm. Kick her out. Ignore the family backlash. Someone else can enter your hellish experience & maybe other members of your family will understand. Though, it honestly sounds like they're all fully aware & are trying to gaslight you so that THEY don't have to experience it themselves.
2026-08-12 15:14:06
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Carmenchula654 :
The mom is TA, there’s no question about it
2026-08-10 19:15:39
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