@thehealingcleric: The discard feels like relief at first… until the silence gets real. Then the avoidant may start replaying what they lost, the chances they had, and the person who finally stopped chasing. Sometimes the biggest regret is realizing you didn’t lose them—you pushed them away. 👀 #AvoidantAttachment #AvoidantEx #BreakupTok #NoContact #Healing
It’s still sometimes never enough to motivate them to change and be a better person, both for themselves or their partner. Extremely sad, but healing is always an internal choice, one that many people - even those that are self aware - may never make. I’ve organised my life around an FA person that only gave me inconsistency and bursts of affection. Four years of cycles of emotional whiplash has left me badly traumatised. I’m trying to leave it all in the past, but attachment and trauma bonding is incredibly hard to move through.
2026-08-11 12:16:33
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Paolalauni :
What kid of discard people usually expirience? Ever exerience lied about moving abrod? And how would you explain it?
2026-08-11 18:19:42
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user6848140720105 :
💯💯💯
2026-08-10 19:20:05
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