@adebisiomoluwa: The marriage has ended. Everybody has gone home. The calls have reduced. People expect you to be fine. But now you are sitting there asking yourself: Okay… what do I do with my life now?’ Who am I? How do I handle the children? How do I manage money? How do I rebuild my confidence? How do I start making decisions alone? Because surviving the divorce is one thing. Rebuilding your life afterwards is another thing entirely. Nobody prepares you for this part. When you realise you now have to rebuild your life. Your confidence. Your finances. Your routines. Your friendships. Your relationship with yourself. Sometimes even your relationship with God. And you don't have a manual. What was the first thing you had to learn to do again after your marriage ended? Not what your ex did. Not why the marriage ended. What did YOU have to rebuild? If you've been through this, what was the FIRST thing you had to learn to do again? Let's talk. I am Adebisi Oluwabunmi Founder of Circle of praying ladies fellowship and your healing buddy here. #Christiancommunity #healingwithadebisi #lifeafterdivorce #WomenOfTikTok #womansupportwoman

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mindurbiznz
ANDREW 🇳🇬 :
Rebuild your life. Learn new skills, grow your knowledge, take care of your health, and work on your income. Become a better version of yourself. The right person will come at the right time. You might be sad about being single now, but eventually, you’ll realize it’s better to be single than to tolerate nonsense….
2026-08-11 02:49:58
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rikky_gold3
Rikky_Gold🦋♥️ :
Hummmmm…let me use mine as an example.the first thing I did is relocating to another state,leave my kids with my parents and start afresh…it’s been 10 years now am planning to bring my kids over…just trust God He will make a way
2026-08-12 10:04:09
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busayotemitope5
BuzzyVentures :
The first thing is to rebuild yourself if possible relocate or change location start your life over again and choose to love yourself more and move closer to God, pray to God to show you the right direction. Divorce is bad it can dis stabilizes destiny and journey of life. May God help every home going through 1 or 2 things🙏
2026-08-10 22:44:30
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viky52541
ng gold :
hmmm its a new era totally when one is divorced
2026-08-11 09:07:10
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fussybabytsignature
Fussybabyt signature :
Hmmm I cry over month after I step out of y marriage with two kids thinking of Wia to start even the debt that caused all the issue are still there not yet finish but I thank God and all thanks to my Family ,I step up by starting my makeup work again and face my hustle Okirika business too is not easy ooo
2026-08-11 12:28:15
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antyfeyi65
Olaposi Feyisara :
hmmmm is good dat is d time you know you don't have any family,hmmmm come and ask me ,, sisterhood just be prayerful and do good God will help you
2026-08-15 11:36:17
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tifemkitchen
Household Kitchen item Alakuko :
The best way is not to walk alone ,walk with God move closer to God ,communicate to God like u can see , trust only in God direction
2026-08-11 20:59:21
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follyzd
Asabi🤪😍😘 :
God pls help us ,it's not easy ma,but am sure is God is truly faithful, hold on to him for thr right part to follow
2026-10-13 19:52:08
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metomitemple
Metomi temple :
To every woman going through divorce pain .The Lord will walk through that pain with you and you will be happy once again
2026-08-27 23:09:07
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dphoonkie.design
Dphoonkie Design and Fabrics :
Am getting better is not easy but my mental health matters 🙏
2026-09-29 19:41:55
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owadayofolashade
owafoladuke :
mmmm this is exactly wot am passing through now I know God will be my comforter, provider and he'll surely see me through in Jesus name AMEN 🙏🏽
2026-08-13 17:23:04
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adunnifresh
ADUNNI FRESH💲 :
I started again by putting God first,personal and intensional relationship with God, then followed by getting myself busy wwith little business, like madam d madam now turn to lady that sells by the road side, thank God for the growth now, I still remains the boss Lady
2026-08-12 11:28:31
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pathway1_
Pathway🌹🌹 :
If you left with the kids or children, put them in a school you can Afford. most important it's not the time to jump into a new marriage, don't make another man your escape plan,so as not to regret and become single again. First fix your broken piece, discover yourself first.
2026-08-11 18:04:29
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tosinoladosu812
tosinoladosu812 :
Prepare yourself before leaving the marriage,stabilize your finances before taken that bold step,keep working hard and focus on building your self, invest in yourself, love yourself, don't judge yourself and don't allow yourself to be judged by people that does not know your struggle and pains.Learn skills to create multiple streams of income.
2026-08-15 22:54:48
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orirere.modupe
orirere Modupe :
Please be close to God and pray always, becoming a single mother after some years of marriage is not an easy task at all. And please don’t rush into any relationship now,I pray God will lead you through and take you through every miles in Jesus Christ name🙏🏻
2026-08-11 17:52:00
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bolupeakinniyi
It's a Popo :
take care of your self first and let God direct your foot, always pray the solution will come and no what you are doing and take your work as your powerity
2026-08-11 13:02:21
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pathway1_
Pathway🌹🌹 :
calm down,rent a house you can Afford, or stay with a trusted friend or family just for the main time,pray for directions 🙏, get a job incase you don't have anything doing.
2026-08-11 18:00:11
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orirere.modupe
orirere Modupe :
It is well with you in Jesus name, please be strong for yourself and the kids
2026-08-11 17:53:21
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mimi_ronky
MimeeofTheMostHigh :
I've always been a married but living single lady so it was easier. Because I've had to be a decision maker and taker, being solely responsible for many things....The first thing I did was try to bring myself out of indebtedness and rebuilt my finances since I have lesser commitment aside for my children's related stuff ... Rent was out, feeding many mouths was out and bills reduced....
2026-08-13 13:23:47
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dammytommy.stitch
DammyTommy Stitches :
Na the income be the koko
2026-08-11 10:56:57
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tprettytrendyworld1
T pretty trendy world :
but for God sake never scatter your fellow one home for your own satisfaction let the will of God be done in our life may God Almighty sees us through Shalom
2026-08-13 06:50:09
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akinswzq3v2
abidemi :
amen
2026-08-11 00:52:34
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farmvitality
farmvitality :
Accept the loneliness,, pray,, as value to yourself
2026-08-21 17:37:15
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olusholo2
Big Mummy Jay :
your relationship with God should be your first peority, and reschedule your spending, and think of what you can add to your income infact it's take the grace of God to heal from this wound hummmm especially when you were betrayed with someone you have 💯 trust omase ooooo 😭😭😭😭
2026-08-21 15:10:56
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akanbibusayohgmail.com
miss angel :
it is well o lo far
2026-08-11 00:00:57
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