@burned_notbroken: When the burned out pursuer gets to a more critical, short, and irritable place, it’s likely because they tried the gentle, curious, and “nice” way several times before with having it fall on deaf ears. partners often remember those critical conversations, not take all of the other curious attempts seriously. every time I tried to ask my husband how I could do better and he gave me no response, it didn’t make me feel good - it made me feel like I was the only one who cared. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #shouldistayorshouldigo

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merrrgle
merrrgle :
I genuinely don't think this was asked in good faith
2026-08-10 21:07:58
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lajluch
Lajla272 :
I belive that when i cried after hearing "you are too stupid to pass exams" or "we are not equals. Im better" and i was repairing and saying stop insulting me he knew im sad and yet didnt care
2026-10-01 20:17:53
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jjpanther99
jjpanther99 :
It’s 7 months now I was asked to jump through hoops I did everything I was asked x3 I asked last week what’s happening between us I was told nothings changed etc etc . I told her I’m done it’s not fair to put all that work in and get not what we talked about . I don’t know what’s to do at this point I just basically stopped all chasing and talking bonuses where it’s going now
2026-08-10 21:29:35
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aawwajsjdha
SK :
"tell me what you want!" turns into "why don't you ever stop bitching?" there is no winning lmao
2026-08-11 20:49:00
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valkyriesmomma1128
Valkyries Momma :
I realized I was being too critical so I said "I'm not attacking you, I'm just sharing my hurt. Here is what I think will fix it." and got "nothing I do is good enough for you." idfk anymore. 🤷‍♀️
2026-08-11 20:07:51
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jannatheviking
Janna Theviking :
you dont end up burn out unless you have been the one doing all the things trying to accommodate and praise and connect ..wen you realize nothings changing thats wen you get distant ..sounds like the person who wrote that message is forgetting or likely didn't even notice all the one sided effort that was there before .
2026-09-15 01:07:41
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todd_b14
Todd_B14 :
Remain focused on being better
2026-08-11 12:04:15
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goingashtrae
ashtrae :
bruh, i have to drafts couple of long paragraphs for me to say so its sounds nice, complimented them, give them a step by step tutorial how to do it but what can i do if they understand how much it meant for me "but i dont seem to want to do it, idk why" good riddance ig
2026-08-12 18:19:04
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jenna.martin3
Jenna baby :
I agree with the original poster. So many “BOPs” rewrite the entire marriage and cross out all the good. Having resentment and martyrdom doesn’t mean you’re the victim. It means you’re trying to rewrite the story so you come out the victim.
2026-08-10 22:02:07
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theinjector
theinjector :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-12 12:29:00
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