the funny shit is that I'm mad low maintenance. I just want you to acknowledge the effort I'm making. I didn't want to occupy 100% of her time....but when she's giving attention to coworkers THAT SHE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE? yeah, I had to tell her that I felt a way about that.
2026-10-03 09:54:57
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Jeep_Guy :
cowards and selfish.
2026-08-11 17:42:41
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Steve Adam396 :
But they show up for the friends but not partners. Which means they can handle others emotions they just don't want it
2026-08-29 22:54:18
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Quinn’s squirrel :
Avoidant are not real. These are people who do not like you.
2026-08-10 23:59:47
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Sarah De Los Santos :
The more I learn about dismissive avoidants, which sound so much like my husband, it’s seeming like it’s very difficult for them to change. I asked my husband to do couples worth with me and he had no response at all. Do most of these relationships end?
2026-08-11 01:49:21
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MrP :
So……they don’t care
2026-08-11 01:04:26
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Ajshshha :
Until they are back at their abusive ex house 3 days later… avoidants don’t care about you.
2026-08-11 06:50:30
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Miss Unbothered :
Why is it he shuts down and won’t talk but then will send a paragraph long text? That’s the only way I find out how he’s feeling thru text
2026-08-12 16:56:14
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StarkyKiepven :
They know exactly what they're doing! Slow fading, sabotaging and silence to let us know we're too much. But 9 out of 10 times silence means someone else has their attention.
2026-08-31 20:54:29
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Sarah & Jasper :
I can understand attachment styles all I want and it doesn’t make that behavior acceptable as an adult. You don’t have to put up with it.
2026-08-21 12:05:28
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J R Wells :
15 years and I had absolutely positively no clue she was Avoidant until I did the research. She knew she had a attachment but didn't know exactly what. And very hard for understand why she couldn't do certain things it was like a struggle for her just to do the simplest things like tell you why she stopped messaging. 🤔
2026-08-12 17:14:06
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Funnygirl :
I am so grateful that somehow the universe brought you to my page.. I’ve been so confused by the silence and I didn’t know what that meant. Thank you so much.
2026-08-18 11:03:54
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Avan :
they know what they are yet they keep engaging in the same destructive pattern all around them
2026-08-12 21:33:31
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🏹💜 :
He used to call me “ cry baby” … 🥺
2026-08-11 18:38:05
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JustbeingP :
Hard too hear. But this is so true!!!
2026-08-11 02:11:21
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Barbara J Edwards :
is it possible that they would block you because you made them afraid of their feelings?
2026-08-11 03:22:34
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Mauiestablished1974🌺 :
So please help me. What’s the next step
2026-08-12 00:34:06
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Klairy :
I am this person. Please help me
2026-08-11 17:02:27
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Ange :
they progressively become more and more distant as time goes on - which is very painful - my advice is to leave the first time they show you who they are - cut the ties !!
2026-08-12 02:10:34
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1111Kirsten🇨🇦 :
Thank you for such amazing, valuable information👌
2026-08-11 00:03:59
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missy putnam :
this is so horribly sad and hopeless. All we can do is pray for them.
2026-08-12 02:12:52
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Jamesy_a :
That is why you leave them.
2026-09-09 11:51:55
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KAM :
If someone is “ghosting at 50, they don’t care. They are old enough to know what they are doing. Don’t waste time with people who can’t love you or care to work on themselves to learn.
2026-09-04 14:57:40
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Harriet Berholtz :
Is it common for them to be angry with you for asking them to go there emotionally like I just really wanted emotional support after our miscarriage and it felt like he hated me for it
2026-09-04 14:29:05
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Chad melton :
Just move on. If a avoidant wants to act like a child walk away.
2026-09-07 15:21:51
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