@thegodlywomannetwork: PERFORMANCE LOVE What if a whole lot of what we’ve called “love” was actually approval we learned to earn? Be good. Be agreeable. Be useful. Be successful. Don’t disappoint anybody. Don’t be too needy, too emotional, too loud, too difficult. Keep everybody happy, read the room, anticipate what people need from you—and maybe you’ll be loved. That conditioning doesn’t just mess with your relationships. It trains your nervous system to associate belonging with performance and your mindset to believe acceptance must be earned. Then we wonder why we’re exhausted, anxious, people-pleasing, over-functioning, afraid of disappointing people, or completely disconnected from what WE actually want and need. Tonight I’m dismantling Performance Love—where it comes from, what it has done to us, how it shows up in our relationships, and what it looks like to begin separating genuine love from approval, attachment and survival. LIVE TONIGHT • 8 PM ET Come ready to recognize some things you may have called “love” your entire life. - Rebecca #Love #relationships #NervousSystem #MentalHealth #TheGodlyWomanNetwork

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