@mariaaudhd: We don't get bullied because we're gullible. We get bullied because we take people at their word — and most people don't. Neurotypical brains are built to read hidden motives. Ours are built to take things literally. So when someone smiles and says something kind, we believe it. When someone's tone doesn't match their words, we often don't catch it. That gap is exactly where bullies find their opening. #ActuallyAutistic #audhd #autism #neurodivergent #fyp

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lafcharang
lafcharang :
And when you catch up and say no, or don't trust people anymore.. you get bullied because you're negative or that you don't like anyone. Neuro-typicals are exhausting.
2026-08-11 17:01:08
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prettyjoybrown
Pretty Brown 🏳️‍🌈 :
Somebody called me naive for believing them and I said no I just expect you say what you mean and mean what you say. It's so hard to train my brain to assume everybody is lying and believe them once they prove it. It feels backwards.
2026-08-11 16:41:01
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savvyfoxe
savvyfoxe :
I'm always taken aback when I realize that, yet again, I was gullible, or naive, or trusting the wrong person or interaction. Again.
2026-08-11 10:48:23
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n8vegalitarian
N8vEgalitarian :
They think there is something behind everything we say and there usually isn't.
2026-08-11 06:24:01
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thoughtful_xennial
The Thoughtful Xennial :
And yet we’re the ones with the communication issues 🙄
2026-08-11 16:18:31
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novrain319
bumblebee💜 ⟭⟬⁷| ⊙⊝⊜ :
I’ve learned meanness
2026-08-11 04:38:34
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krafciarz
Krafciarz 🛰️ :
either its concious or not, NOTHING make them change. dont give free pass to those mfs, they never give genuine one to u
2026-08-11 13:28:37
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_the_nite_skye_
The Nite Skye 🌌🖤🐍🦉🥀 :
when I was little, I didn't understand sarcasm at all and I ended up getting bullied because of this.
2026-08-11 08:55:09
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alexmck310
Alex McKenna :
sometimes it feels like I have a massive sign over my head that says "take advantage of me"
2026-08-11 00:41:14
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batkevn
batkevn :
"Say what you mean, and mean what you say." People get mad at me for not veiling my thoughts, or for asking questions when there are obvious gaps in their story. I thought we were having a conversation, not putting together a 5,000 piece puzzle.
2026-08-11 11:18:51
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bluenitrogen
Naomi The Model 👸🏾💙 :
i have both but sometime i don’t pick up on it
2026-08-11 10:24:36
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alex78794
Alex :
I have severe trust issues as an adult because people just never do what they say they will EVERRR
2026-08-11 10:23:40
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blink_lover83
💋Stephanie 🏴‍☠️ :
its why they say we take things literal , no we just dont want to play mental gymnastics trying to interpret what someone really means, just say what you mean people! but im called rude for saying what I really think openly
2026-08-11 12:27:54
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jkrakin2
Judi Blu :
this is why I cannot"get" mean jokes
2026-08-11 00:39:57
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mwritesalot
🍉 Miranda Newfield - Author :
The first time someone called me names as a kid - real names. Bullying - it was a former friend that I lit up at the sight of him. And he instantly attacked me to save face so no one would know we’d been friends the previous year. It scarred me. Destroyed my trust in people permanently. I’ve tried to prepare my babies for that sh*t before they EVER encounter it.
2026-08-11 08:40:41
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moogletea
moogletea :
What?
2026-08-11 10:35:03
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wilmarie.audhd
Wilmarie • AuDHD Teacher :
Ouuuuu 👏“In a world that doesn’t always deserve that”
2026-08-11 01:09:05
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user48374416666084
Albie :
Imagine trusting people in 2026
2026-08-11 05:41:01
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sharpsharp55
Bobbie Dee :
Autistic people can bully others as well.
2026-08-11 07:55:54
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kingjamestheb
King's Court, What's Up? :
My care staff are such yokel trash and try to find ways to trigger me into being on the streets. I have to complain so much every time this happens
2026-08-11 02:34:45
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nicolelouisenook
Nicole Louise Nook :
🖤🖤🖤
2026-08-11 15:59:46
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