The Control Code
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Tuesday 11 August 2026 01:56:41 GMT
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Meliza :
I asked to him, for my birthday gift that he does not criticize me for a day! how sad that is... 😫
2026-08-11 09:46:53
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UnapologeticallyMe :
I can NOT love this enough. This is ON POINT! 👌
2026-08-11 18:44:41
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⭐️⚡️Queen Danu👑💎 :
him:"it's just a joke" "I was joking" me: "it's not a joke if I'm not laughing" "I'm tired of your jokes,just cut if off"
2026-08-11 02:24:00
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red poppy :
I have gotten to the stage where I was walking o eggshells to please him..now I have been nagged so much etc that I dont give a rats ass...I call him a hot house violet when he critiques me.
2026-08-11 10:58:23
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.Sarah. :
Accurate. I’m between stage 3 and 4. Walking on eggshell’s because you just don’t know what will set them off.
2026-08-11 19:06:27
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Mili96 :
15 months perfect till day 5 honeymoon, basically a 3 week cycle for 26 years
2026-08-11 12:00:15
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Reb Wue :
coercive control is going to be illegal in Canada, a recent and landmark case here made it so👏
2026-08-12 20:49:01
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spicedbypaulina :
I asked him to do laundry, he didn’t do it, so I started doing the laundry and HE GOT MAD BECAUSE I WAS MAKING HIM FEEL BAD FOR NOT DOING LAUNDRY
2026-09-11 13:21:16
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dizzyizzyart :
sending love to the 72 women who saved this vid.
2026-08-11 20:39:09
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Penny 🪙 :
I attract these people like a magnet. Even with all the work I’ve done on myself, even when I think I’m moving differently, or they’re different from the last mistake, somehow, I can’t seem to shake that love bombing stage. Right now, I’ve gotten to the stage of being single but unavailable, in a neglectful relationship. I’m just gonna keep working on me in the meantime
2026-08-11 18:36:58
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GenZ :
“Why be defined by the marriage, when HE isn’t?”
2026-08-11 16:57:35
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🖤 :
THIS. 💔 14 YEARS OF MY LIFE. I’m finally a little over a year free, and yes, it took EVERYTHING I had to get out. It even cost me pieces of myself that I’m still finding again. 💔
2026-08-28 18:28:44
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samantha hur :
people tell us women to just pick better but we also get told: -single/child free is selfish & u will die alone - having "too many standards" is a turn off - leaving a crap boyfriend is being "picky" how are we supposed to know the men are lying & faking their personalities until it's too late & we are already married/have kids
2026-08-11 15:51:09
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Mother of Wilds :
At the end the best days I had were the days he went and stayed at his girlfriends house. It was so peaceful.
2026-08-11 03:07:38
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moxie.saturday :
what percentage of relationships are feeling embarrassed about what the man is doing, trying to justify his actions, give the benefit of the doubt, make excuses for him? so sad…
2026-08-11 17:32:52
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silverfisk_ :
I feel terrified thinking back to stage 4 and how obvious it was he knew how scared I was of him.
2026-08-11 06:23:23
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SheHasTeeth :
Beautifully articulated. Thank you for doing this work! 😘🌹
2026-08-11 23:35:20
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⭐️⚡️Queen Danu👑💎 :
at this point,either you learn and have very clear his moves and let him believe that you haven't realized or you pack up your stuff and leave before making a perfect plan behind his back.Am I wrong? never spoke about this out loud tbh
2026-08-11 02:31:33
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🦙 Môrnïng BøøPs 🦙 :
this is EXACTLY how my 20 year marriage went too
2026-08-11 10:07:49
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🎄@cindyloohoo4texas🎄 :
stsge 4 is cheating. and 5 the family annihilation
2026-09-11 21:10:50
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bran :
I wish I could call you 😩
2026-08-23 10:24:16
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gin win :
I haven’t seen much on this, thank you! It’s helpful to know many others have experienced this too ❤️
2026-08-21 07:09:32
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Shell Bear :
WoW. Great breakdown of the CC stages. 😍👍🏻
2026-08-20 22:53:42
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🖤 :
Seriously realizing it's a copy and paste type of monster we are all getting. WTF 🤯
2026-08-28 18:29:42
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silverfisk_ :
yes, 100000 %
2026-08-11 06:21:36
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