It takes isolation. You have to get comfortable with who you are and learn to accept that having a partner isn’t what makes you valuable as a person. You eventually just stop giving a fuk and that’s when you master your emotional control.
2026-08-11 14:03:01
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Angry Bruce :
when I see a really hot chick, I deliberately look away and not acknowledge her
2026-08-11 04:16:31
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TheNaijarealestateguide :
Just get busy as a person. when you're busy, you generally don't have the luxury of time for emotional bs
2026-08-11 06:33:49
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Thabiso :
Modern day dating is all about how good you can act 😏
2026-08-11 08:13:29
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YOUR HIGHNESS :
DESPERATION IS ALWAYS UNATTRACTIVE BTW
2026-08-11 08:14:53
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Only Frans :
“I want an ultra-chalant guy who texts back immediately”. Lies
2026-08-11 14:51:54
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Lisa Glamour :
Not true at all. Non chalant men are so boring. Why would I be with a man that does not care. Plus MANY men play that game of not caring. Actually the man that win is the self assured guy who say I want you, only you. Just read woman’s romance book and see how it’s always men that are really into her.
2026-08-12 08:02:41
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icelanderonetwo :
Seek first the kingdom of heaven and all else will be given unto you ✝️👀
2026-08-11 20:15:22
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Neal :
They come to me… I don’t go to them. Fish come to the bait.. the fisher goes to the pond though
2026-08-11 20:05:13
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. :
Wtf is frame
2026-08-18 21:03:47
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11kii35 :
That’s exactly WHY I tell the women I care about (that are friends/family) to go with the guy who is NERVOUS around her. He is the genuine person without a secret agenda
2026-08-12 03:53:49
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. :
20 years in the game and believe me, do not give off “needy” energy and don’t give too much attention and don’t be too available…. Girls might say “ I want a guy who gives me unconditional love, a guy that would give the world to me” but in reality, they’ll get bored of a guy like that…..
2026-08-11 18:18:00
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Mikey Jones :
My advice to men, don’t marry a perfect 10 unless your looking for less than 10 years in marriage
2026-08-12 17:44:25
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Regular.Type :
stop listening to these love gurus who aint never had a bad bih. that 💩 aint all its hyped up to be . go for who likes you back. you won't have to pretend to be nothing else than who you are
2026-08-12 05:14:31
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Brady :
Frame is holding your standards , it’s not giving in to her emotional pressure and her erratic behavior. Not being desperate, if she says she js gonna leave say go ahead
2026-08-11 15:20:31
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💰☀️⭐️🎬🐾TheHunter🐾🎬⭐️☀️🎭 :
be the guy who's happy to be alone and walk the moment there is disrespect, self respect is worth its wait in gold
2026-08-11 18:36:14
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Kevin Chika Nzeadachie :
Trust me. This has nothing to do with people that wanna get married. Marriage is a different ball game. There’s no acting there. It’s not sustainable
2026-08-12 21:36:07
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Auralis Ray :
I wish men just exist
2026-08-11 19:54:36
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CMP :
Men have to go through some hardships to get to that point. Being married for 15 years and now divorced i understand why i couldn’t hold my frame. It takes pain, hurting and failing to eventually learn this and get to that point.
2026-08-11 09:38:50
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Ravisher :
Not so hot take: If your dating preferences (women) require you to be apathetic, have frame, have money, have confidence, have height. And it leads them to undesirable outcomes. The problem IS their standards/expectations
2026-08-11 08:39:37
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787:D :
Act like you have options and agency
2026-08-11 14:29:44
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michaelalesi8 :
Or, just be yourself and you’ll end up with a good match for YOU!
2026-08-11 22:38:19
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Its_me_E :
This is 💯 true. I learned in my early teens, the less you want them the more they’ll chase you.
2026-08-11 19:19:25
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