I'm not saying this to spite on anyone, out of my own understanding, those who suffer usually try to survive and thrive silently, while those who want people to take their side after the break up usually so vocal and loud about the break up. But different people have different way to cope with the break up, not our business, but we can look at what happened and learn from their mistake and making sure you're not making the same mistake as them if you're in a relationship.