@ricardowaynevanwyk: People often thinks life is easy when you're working abroad or on ships... but the reality is very different. While we're working hard to provide for our families, we're also sacrificing moments we'll never get back. We miss birthdays. We miss wedding anniversaries. We miss our children's milestones. We miss graduations. We miss Christmases and New Year's celebrations. We miss family gatherings. We miss special occasions. We miss being there when someone needs us most. We miss saying goodbye to the ones we love. We miss welcoming new family members into the world. We miss simple dinners around the table. We miss hugs that can't be replaced by a phone call. The paycheck helps support the people we love, but it comes at the cost of time—something money can never buy back. To everyone working far from home: your sacrifices often go unseen, but they are real, and they are made out of love.

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yusrahmostert
cupcake :
shame my friend I feel it with you that's very true hey. every day that passes by is very important time flies ❣️
2026-08-14 22:17:09
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rochelle.coetzer
Rochelle Coetzer :
God bless your soul Ricardo,you should be proud of yourself you enduring all that for your family♥️May you soon start own thing back home and it will be a big success 🙏🏻❤️
2026-08-13 13:17:47
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charlenetaurijo
❤️Charlene Taurijo -Original❤️ :
This has me in tears. 🥺 My husband is making this same sacrifices working offshore, and today was one of those really difficult days for me a day filled with tears. I said, “I never signed up for this.” 😭🥺🥺🥺😭 He is missing out on so much moments with the kids, family time, birthdays he hasn’t been home for any of our birthdays since he started working offshore, everyday little things that we often take for granted. And people only see the beauty of this lifestyle, but they don’t see the sacrifices, the tears, the lonely nights, the missed moments and the strength it takes to keep going. But we do it for a reason. We do it for our family, for our children and for the generations we are raising. ❤️It’s not always easy, and sometimes we’re allowed to admit that it hurts😭😭🥺🥺. But we keep going, we keep supporting each other, and we keep trusting that every sacrifice will be worth it one day. Strongs to you as well, brother. 🙏❤️You are not alone in this journey.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
2026-08-11 20:53:19
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esme0101j
esme0101j :
So true 👍. God bless 🙌 🙏 and keep you safe. and good health.
2026-08-14 19:46:28
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lucky_m26
LuckyM😍 :
Oh 😒so sorry you’re feeling like this, it will get better…. Your fellow South Africans are with you at heart 🤍
2026-08-14 02:42:47
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keithvandenheever4
keithvandenheever4 :
Just started a new passport again. Yes it has its perks to. Show my passports to my partner ever stamp is just lost time will loved ones we cannot get back. Stay strong I know what it feels like staring at that ceiling.🙏
2026-08-13 03:11:25
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nadcloete
🦋Nadz🦋 :
Askies😢
2026-08-14 21:58:38
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licia14867
licia14🇿🇦 :
My late father was Bosun. I literally grew up without my dad. I didn't understand then, why my daddy wasn't home when I saw other daddies home every evening. As an adult, I miss my dad but I appreciate more than i can ever say, hw hard he worked away from home. Those hard working hands gave me everything I am and have today. When I held his hand as he took his last breath, I was grateful for his hard work. May ur hands and sacrifice be blessed, and may ur kids knw their father is doing the best for them. Ur sacrifice (love) in physical form will be understood one day. Keep strong. May calm seas face u and may God keep u and crew safe🙏
2026-08-11 19:44:56
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lameezehaafiz
Lameezhaafiz :
my husband hasn’t been home for one birthday of our son his turning 6 next week n his daddy won’t be here again🥹lifeofaseaman💔
2026-08-12 11:32:03
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life_with_kayy__
life_with_kayy__ :
I love you daddy 🥺🩵
2026-08-13 05:11:43
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bontlesem
bontlesem :
I grew up with my entire family sea farers my dad a captain , my brothers officers bosun , uncles , grandpa . So i understand cause it hard for us at home not having Father to celebrate our success from matriculating to our graduation and there are months that its 9 months . So yes we were blessed with food on the table but its difficult . Strongs brother . Its all in God’s plan things could be so different.
2026-08-12 11:14:33
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gadija.rossier
FREE SPIRIT :
Been a grass widow all my life & needed to be mom & dad to my kids. These days I look at my son, also a sailor but there's no other job that interests him. Guess it's more than a job, it's clearly the love for the ocean. My dad, father in-law, brother & husband were all sailors. Respect to those who make the sacrifices. It's definitely not easy.
2026-08-11 16:28:37
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vuf998
🧚WIM :
my riend werk op die boot..net gstr aand se hy my hoe sad en lonely xmas and new years is...sy kollegas speel xmas songs en try dinge vir hom at home laat voel..maar hy se dus nie dieselfde nie...jule is sterk en braaf .... eendag sal jule die vrugte pluk ek salute jule✨✨
2026-08-11 18:01:00
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user601124376829
MC :
This made me so emotional...my daughter works abroad....and I miss her everyday, the phonecalls never makes up for the hugs, or quick chat, or where i would run into her room just to talk or wake her up...I see all her sacrifice and cry many days...I pray for her safety, as I would always pray for her before she would leave the house....now I go into her room and prayer in her room...may tou all be blessed for the sacrifice you are all making...to better our lives ❤️
2026-08-12 08:34:46
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veerose14
Veerose :
Don't worry one day you look back say it wasn't easy but worth it,our unemployment stands at 33%.Hold on to what you have,you doing it for your family and peace of mind.🙏🙏
2026-08-11 14:14:39
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waleed0606
Waleed Richards :
brothers and sisters this will never get easy and the saddest part you will never see a moment that was lost while you were abroad. time moves on it does not wait for us. kids gets older . I finished of last year because we can never replace time that was lost, strongs to you brother
2026-08-11 20:47:31
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elridgerossouw
⚓🌊captain..el 🌊⚓ :
It is very difficult.. I feel your pain.. I made the decision to work close to home with a pay cut.. I see my family everyday.. Best decision ever.. Strongs brother.
2026-08-11 17:29:58
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dealshaad1
dealshaad :
It hurts sooo bad, sometimes I feel like I cant breath without my parents and my sisters😭
2026-08-11 19:42:06
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antheaaploon
Anthea Aploon :
blessings my vriend Ricardo God is met jou daar mag Hy jou krag en sterkte gee elkedag dink aan jou..
2026-08-12 06:24:44
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kallit.kind
CURNEL :
tell me about and these thoughts involves money because apparently we have become rich overnight
2026-08-13 01:10:54
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_iam_nickyb
Nicky B🖤👑 :
I know the feeling all too well. It’s not easy but your sacrifices do not go unnoticed. 🙏🏼 May God guide you through this and bring you to your next chapter. While still onboard, keep your faith ❤️, stay focused and keep grinding. It will all work out. 🫂
2026-08-12 13:55:33
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caithlyn451
Caithlyn :
God sees your tears Sir. Trust that God will make a way so you be with your family. God can surprise us in ways we never imagine. I trust that God will show up for you🙏♥️
2026-08-12 04:51:07
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sailor1401
Sailor1401 :
Strongs Sailor...i feel you but what can we do?..we just have to bite the bullet to provide for our families...we just have to earn and save to start a business back home I'm working towards a goal and I'm going to achieve it at the end of the day
2026-08-12 17:06:13
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barenicedickson
Barenice Dickson :
I know this feeling 😭😭 my husband works away in the Middle East and he has missed so much. Many days I cry because I hate every moment of being without him, missing out on our kids growing up 😢. I pray that the Lord will give you wisdom in every decision you need to make and that He will bless the works of your hands.
2026-08-12 17:55:05
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michelle_vandervent72
Michelle_Williams :
True we can do nothing with God.
2026-08-12 15:57:57
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