Landon | The Identity Coach
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Tuesday 11 August 2026 13:30:52 GMT
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Kay👽 :
Every time I hear a “I’m just a POS” and I reply with “I didn’t say that but thanks for letting me know what you think about yourself” and then agree with whatever unhinged things said moving forward. They usually don’t know what to do after that.
2026-08-11 15:56:12
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trisaratops :
"well I guess ill just never speak again" ok, bet.
2026-08-12 14:45:13
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Jena Fox :
its ALL manipulation... Apologies with out change is manipulation. deflection from the problem is manipulation
2026-08-11 14:04:41
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🦆 Duck One :
Surprisingly, your videos have become a daily routine, and it helped me become more calmer about my relationship. I don’t try to get someone to understand anymore.
2026-08-11 14:02:14
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minnie74house :
Every day now I call him out and bring up accountability. (Thanks to you Landon)-When I do, I’m “starting sh**” or “being ridiculous “ or “being a hypocrite “ — all attempts made at deflection. Anyway, about the blaming- I find he can trace ANY incident back to why it’s MY FAULT. large or small, significant or not. Even if he knows he is to blame? The blame is always something I did. Accountability is his kryptonite apparently.
2026-08-11 13:49:22
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Farfignougat :
I'm so sick of the point being that I did something wrong about bringing up the problem, instead of the problem being the conversation point.
2026-08-11 17:38:34
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oops, shadow banned :
my ex was very good at evoking pity when he messed up. When I finished comforting him and things were calm again and he realized that I was still going to try to discuss the topic that set him off in the first place his distress quickly turned to anger
2026-08-11 16:12:52
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lexy. :
“your job isn’t to rescue him from accountability”
2026-08-14 14:17:44
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Tianna Lombardi :
For me, it was that he seemed to say everything was wrong all the time. It could be innocuous and he would treat it with the same severity as something so important. I would think I'd apologize but it wasn't good enough. He'd accuse me of not caring, or not listening or embarrassing him etc. And it got to the point where it was so often that I would just end up sitting there saying nothing because I didn't know what to say, because it seemed like everything I said or did was going to be the wrong thing. I see these videos and I wonder if I was the problem? Or if it was a normal reaction to him being in a constant state of blame and crisis?
2026-08-11 17:27:22
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Krystal | Post Punk REALTOR® :
And some have learned this from their mothers….
2026-09-30 15:24:57
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Kate 📚 Dating Wisdom :
My mum always said men are just little boys. My sons pulled this BS when they were toddlers.
2026-08-11 16:32:25
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🦇🖤 The Mirror 🖤🦇 :
he blows up and gets dangerous.
2026-09-27 16:49:31
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Keya Diné :
He learned that before he met me. He expected me to pick up that ball and run with it. Running with other people's balls causes you to drop your own. "Don't fall for this crap"
2026-11-06 11:14:08
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403forbiddenx :
sooo I'm not his momma....got it
2026-09-25 10:32:45
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₊˚ ✨ 𝕃𝕖𝕖𝕝𝕠 ✨₊˚ :
If I push to be heard (this is if course after carefully scripting my words) he’ll say “this always happens to me” or “you’re always right” or “guess I can’t say anything.”
2026-08-12 03:38:02
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Anne | Backroads & Beyond :
My husband is this way. I can’t talk to him about anything.
2026-08-19 08:32:24
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Leafy-C-Dragon :
I can remember my father pulling this - “well, I guess I’m just the worst dad ever …..”
2026-08-11 15:22:54
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Woodenbiker2 :
We know it's manipulation, how to we curtail it?
2026-08-11 16:22:31
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Eye_C_It :
Him emotional and crying. That's his new go-to. Along with cutting himself down and waiting for me to defend him. Nope! You say you're a POS, then you are a POS! Then he says I'M the one thats mean because I didn't disagree with it. Im so tired.
2026-09-29 07:00:42
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Vampyremommy73 :
I constantly say "the best apology is changed behavior" spent the past decade saying this to random men who think they can behave insane with me and throw a sorry out there so they can get a pass to continue it
2026-09-26 22:30:39
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annahita𓆩♡𓆪 :
What are your thoughts on him not letting his girl go thru his phone bc she wants transparency
2026-08-15 21:11:57
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jɇn |-/ :
what if he does this in response to something i've "done"? like if i haven't been showing him enough affection for his liking and he comes with the "you don't care about me. i must be an a-hole". how do i respond to that?
2026-08-13 21:53:22
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Fireheart8402 :
From the depths of my soul - THANK YOU!
2026-08-15 22:19:38
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keylimecry :
Lately he just says “I’m not arguing with you” but we’re broken up now. This is so real
2026-08-11 21:03:01
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lisaandtheword :
if you're going to be a big boy you need to learn what accountability is.. hehe I'm stealing that one
2026-09-01 03:48:59
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