if you're child was in the relationship you have now, would you want that for them?
2026-08-12 13:42:13
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JessicaLee :
Shame isn’t an effective motivator. Theres science behind this.
2026-08-16 01:30:13
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user1596511259242 :
About a month after becoming clean and sober I got pissed cause I felt my family didn’t trust me enough. Then a sober friend said “why the hell should they trust you, you destroyed any trust that they gave you. It’s your job to earn it back! 42 years and 8 months later, I’ve earned it back!
2026-08-12 02:58:49
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jake :
I was once told by a remarkable woman who was still working at 91… love has almost nothing to fo with how you feel about another person, love has everything to do with how another person makes you feel about yourself
2026-08-12 03:35:13
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xoxostephrose :
My grandma was 91 when my grandpa died and she literally started living. He was controlling and abusive for 60+ years. She sold the house she hated, sold all his stuff, bought what SHE wanted and went where she wanted. I was in a marriage that was destroying me at the time (32) and I left because I realized my yearning for my own life would never leave. I was just wasting time.
2026-08-23 02:11:25
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SpeakoftheBeville2 :
Some people are going to hate you for reasons that are out of your control. And there’s nothing you can do that will change their mind.
2026-08-11 20:09:17
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levilito :
"Let him go, let it be another woman's tears not yours"
2026-08-12 03:09:15
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Wayne :
My therapist said. "You will eventually have to put yourself 1st and not everyone else if you want to be happy!"
Thats a hard realization for me.
2026-08-16 16:31:50
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Jake :
Some people work with their brains some people work with their muscles… it was a derogatory remark as I worked with my muscles at the time. Now I work my brain and get paid well enough for it.
2026-08-11 20:44:04
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Nikki :
my cousin told me to "grow a spine" when I got upset at my grandma's funeral. havent cried since.
2026-08-12 11:11:45
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LuluBee :
You cannot control how others act around you, but you can control who you allow to be around you……you are in charge of your life, be it good or bad, make the best of every day……..literally nothing lasts forever! We are an organism that is programmed to expire, do the things you love the most and don’t let others make you feel quilty about it!
2026-08-11 20:43:23
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V.4.Vixxen :
Instead of getting annoyed with someone over something small that they did ask yourself "was it malicious?"
90% of the time it isn't. Assume positive intent and don't get worked up over things
2026-08-12 17:17:55
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Freakin_Geek :
I was very depressed in high school and got addicted to sleeping pills. I planned on overdosing on sleeping pills after dinner one night, and whe. I came out of my room, my dad point blank said, "I don't know what's going on with you, but you better cut the shit. Figure it out, nobody else is going to do that for you."
It worked for me because I didn't realize my dad cared ebough about me to notice I was sleeping allll the tiiiime. I assumed since I was out of his way, he was happy.
But those are words I would tell myself when I was in a pickle. I have to figure it out because no one else would do it for me.
2026-08-12 01:20:51
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steveedwards9127 :
When I was starting grad school I was griping about all the work. A wiser colleague said the hard work was necessary because “if you’re going to be a college professor, it would be nice to have something to profess.”
2026-08-12 00:14:10
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zaracrowlands :
You have an external locus of control. Try developing your internal locus of control.
2026-08-11 19:35:32
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Lock_ness :
If he wanted to he would ..
2026-08-12 06:14:31
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LIBERAL MEMES 🇨🇦 :
stop worrying and start acting!
2026-08-11 20:00:21
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Badgalmermer :
“You’ve had enough snacks” -DG
2026-08-12 01:28:29
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thatnerdukno98 :
“At some point you’re going to have to accept you have crippling anxiety and just decide to not let it stop you from having a good time.” What proceeded was figuring out how to meditate and sleep better and I did not drop out of college. I also got really good at mitigating anxiety attacks. They still happen uncontrollably but I can manage them without medication (including alcohol) and I learned where all my limits are and how to healthily push those boundaries (like being in the pit at a concert) to have positive experiences.
2026-08-12 03:29:22
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Tony Danley :
You are responsible for your failures if you stop trying.
2026-08-12 19:46:11
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user6612924267985 :
We accept the love we think we deserve
2026-08-11 22:50:57
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The_Duchess :
Grief is the price of love💕
2026-08-11 19:14:39
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D willy :
I was thinking opposite, like not being unequally yoke together, so I broke it off
2026-08-12 05:57:21
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JamisonPastures :
Stop wallowing in the puddle of piss (whether you created it or its someone else’s {figuratively obviously}). Stand up and take the first step to get out of it
2026-08-12 02:16:57
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Oops the cat did it :
"who cares?" simple but effective and lowkey it got rid of my social anxiety because they're right. who the fuck cares?
2026-08-12 08:22:18
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